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How learning another language helped me with loneliness and depression

User Profile: labachatera
labachatera May 28th, 2015

I'm a very social person, and to be lonely worsens my depression. I love to talk to people. One day I thought to myself "why not learn another language?" So I started to learn Japanese. The only way to learn another language is to speak it, you naturally need to go find people to speak it with. To learn Japanese and to have to speak it with people helped me fight loneliness and depression, even though I mostly spoke with people over skype, it still helped. I learned. I watched anime, and about 3 months later, I could understand about 75 out of 100 of what they said. My self esteem and confidence soared as I gradually understood more and more andI felt better about myself.

Unfortunately, I got busy with school, and my depression got worse, and didn't have time, nor motivationto watch anime, and talk with people. But since school is ending, and I want to avoid falling into depression and loneliness again, this summer, I am going to learn Hindi andUrduthis summer.I think that since to learn another language helped me in the past,it will help me again.

So if you're lonely, I suggest to learn another language! It'll help you connect with people.

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User Profile: TransAm85
TransAm85 May 28th, 2015

That is a great idea! I am married to aMexican manand a lot of times I feel out of place when he is speaking Spanish w/his friends/family. We have been together for 4 years so I have slowly caught on to phrases/words, especially the cuss words, but I am not young anymore. Children can learn two languages at once b/c they are like sponges. As you get older it is harder to process, even if you hear the language on a daily basis. Well thanks!

User Profile: Upbeat
Upbeat May 28th, 2015

Hello @labachaterasmiley

​this is truly great. This made me so happy that you are trying to feel better dear.You need to come up with the combination of activities that works best for you. I?ve never found one method that works on all the symptoms. *hugs tight*
I?m glad to have you as part of our community. You seem like a very selfless and amazing person, please never stop being you and thank you for sharing your words with us.heart

User Profile: SpiritualRoyalty7
SpiritualRoyalty7 May 29th, 2015

I'm currently learning Spanish and I watch telenovelas 😊. Looking forward to being able to communicate with someone in the language. Looking for some options.

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User Profile: Kaslan
Kaslan May 30th, 2015

Espero que puedas conseguirlo, no te rindas, tu puedes!wink

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User Profile: Seaway
Seaway June 2nd, 2015

@labachatera,

Where do you find friends to learn the language with over Skype?

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User Profile: labachatera
labachatera OP June 2nd, 2015

https://www.italki.com/?ref=2409225

This isn't a social media profile

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