I am too ugly for friends or relationships
I am just convinced that i am destined to be alone forever because no on wants me in their life i am pretty sure it’s because i am ugly and at night i cry my self to sleep because it hurts to be lonely and I really can’t take it anymore I don’t know what to do anymore
If it makes you feel better, beauty is very subjective. What you might think is unattractive which you find in yourself could be very attractive to other people. Also beauty standards changes all the time, so if you think society thinks you're not pretty enough it doesn't necessarily mean you're ugly, you're just born in the wrong period. And if you find the right person, your looks really won't matter at all, if they love you, they would even find your imperfections endearing.
Hey I feel you, but by the time you find you purpose you'll know you are better off being "yourself". The world is a very skeptical place to be and where you are is better than anything. Just accept the mere facts and ask yourself "so what?" and continue doing your thing. You'll find some amazing experiences and even some people who are after uniqueness and confidence rather than looks. Hope you're doing okay.
Yes, I felt the same way, I always think that no one will love me because I am too ugly but saying this to myself will end up hurting myself too, so what I did is finding myself, what are my capabilities, abilities I am capable of doing, so I work hard and make myself proud, become the best version of myself, I don't have to impress someone else to love me, coz I know myself that I am loved and I am someone's sunshine, there is a right time for the right person. So now, I Always remind that being alone does not mean you have to be lonely. You are loved 💖
Christv it sounds like your going through some tough stuff. I think I have a unique perspective on your problem. I work as a Personal trainer. Everyday I work with people who have the "perfect" bodies, and those who "don't". Or I work with people who "don't" to get to "perfect". Some would say the ones with "perfect" bodies are beautiful. Some would say the ones who don't have "perfect" bodies are ugly. Both wrong. If I can take someone no matter where they are and physically and mentally change their lives and their perspectives on themselves and the world, that is beauty. You are beauty. ❤
@Christv1378 hey friend firstly who said you dont have any friend look around in nature or animal they too can understand betterly than few stupid humans. And why to take everything negative just think that you deserve better them then so your vibes are not matching thats it you can create a whole world without anyones help. Friendship just kill times but in lonelyness you can create valueable thing in time. So there nothing to worry about ending and all just freshnen your mood and start new life with smile on your face.✌️😇
Hey. I too felt that I needed to be attractive to catch the attention of people to be friends. But recently, I learn that having a personality and interest can cultivate a conversation and soon form a bond of friendship. You are beautiful and pretty, but don't let that be the reason why you can't have friends or a relationship. Be yourself and shine on! 😀😀😀