Tearing up inside
I'm a 16 yr old boy and I'm bloody terrified of being alone. I want a girlfriend but of course I don't have one and I'm so scared that I'm never going to get one. I feel so lonely and I'm terrified of dying alone. Every listener I get just abandons me and leaves me by myself alone any scared :(
I know what you're feeling, and I promise you that you will find someone. I had almost lost hope five months ago, and then i met someone who turned my whole life around and made ife worth living again. he is my soul mate, and we are still together now.
your soul mate is out there somewhere, so don't lose hope. you might be surprised by where you can bump into love. keep an open heart and an open mind, and they will come soon.
stay strong, and remember that you are not alone in your struggles. I'm not a listener, but if you need someone to talk to feel free to mention me in a thread.
@TheLPSoldier it's just really hard, I feel so lonely. I just want my singleness to end :(
@JamesJoestar i know i dont have any experience in this area (in terms of romantic relationships, since ive never been in one), but its okay. What you feel is normal, something many people go thru this at some point in there lives. Your young, and ur at a natural time when u start worrying about these things. Im a 18, i was like u too before (roughly about a year ago), worrying about finding someone to love, someone who would love me. But what changed my point of view was when my brother told me to worry and force it to happen. Just be patient. Give it time. He also told me that the best way to get the person of "your dreams" is to do what you love. Explore ur interests and passions, and u find someone perfect for u. Dont wait around for them. Live life. I dunno if this helps, but i really related to ur post. Im not a listener either but id be happy to listen. Stay strong.
@YellowBananas I can't say that it does help, because my anxiety still tears me up and I can't sleep at night because i'm too scared of being alone forever
I just feel so sad right now and I guess... Lonely. I actually don't know how all these threads work but I just found the tearing up inside and how I kinda felt like that too I just wanna rant too haha. It sucks being alone and lonely when the people around you are so oblivious to emotional stuff like this... I hope I'm posting right how do I do this stuff anyways :))
