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User Profile: selfdisciplinedMango2473
selfdisciplinedMango2473 September 28th, 2021

Why do people have to be so negative all the time. All they do is get so angry and mad at the smallest things and they just don't get that it bothers people. When I'm mad and angry I don't talk to people because it jjst brings people so so sick of it. Its too much sometimes. I try to be a good friend but it just is too much.

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User Profile: mytwistedsoul
mytwistedsoul October 22nd, 2021

@selfdisciplinedMango2473 Hey :)

So this is just my opinion but sometimes I wonder if they get upset over the little things because they're just used to getting their way and when they don't it kind of freaks them out? Or maybe its just the way they know to vent. I know there's alot of crazy stuff going on in the world right now - so maybe that contributing to the negativity? I keep things to myself too - I tried letting things out and it didn't go so good - so its not something I'll do again lol

But if they start and you'd rather not hear it - maybe you could politely excuse yourself? Even if it's just to go to the bathroom - I mean - its not much help but maybe it can give you some ideas how to avoid situations like that?

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User Profile: selfdisciplinedMango2473
selfdisciplinedMango2473 OP October 22nd, 2021

Hey :). Thanks for replying.

You know I think you might br right. This person always vents alot and sometimes its very stressful to hear and puts others in a bad moon. I know things are very stressgul but going above and beyond complaining it doesn't help at all.

I think your right I should definitely excuse myself from situations like that. Thank you for the suggestion :)

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