Was it worth it?
I did my undergrad in 3 years so I could take a year off. I was always in the library and never went anywhere because I was focused on school. After graduation I realized I have no friends....and the job search is going horribly. On top of that I moved back to my parents house to save money and recently 3 of my cousins just got engaged. So I feel extremely lonely and wonder if I went college all wrong?
Well I am yet to complete my undergrad but spending all time in library might not have been the best option. You studied hard that's not gonna get waste tho but you could have made some friends and some good memories but hey don't be sad about this now even some people make lot's of friends and memories but they all get separated. And as much Ik about jobs no matter how jard you study or how less sometimes it's a hit and miss. Keep trying you'll get to somewhere eventually and for your college it wasn't a waste dw😂 nothing get's wasted. Finally about your friends it's never ever too late to make friends and memories get some friends now atleast in this time you need one most, everyone feels lonely but one person makes a huge difference get a friend now. Lemme know if you have anything to talk about.
Hard work never goes to waste. It's completely understandable and alright if you didn't make any friends due to the circumstances you were in during your college years. Those who did make friends aren't always together too after college ends. Atleast you did something productive during that time. So it's okay, try not to be harsh with yourself thinking that way. You'll get a good job eventually don't worry, and get plenty of opportunities to make friends over there. And even if you don't find anyone there, you can always befriend other people from different activities or places you spend time in. I hope you feel better. Sending loads of good wishes your way✨
My cousin and friends are having babies and families while I still live at home and jobless. I know what you mean
