I can't forget
I had a best friend for 3 years(2017-2019) and I was in love with him.... He was also in love with me. Those times were the best times of my life. I thought it would last forever. He was there for me when my dad passed away. He was always there. But in 2019 after an argument I didn't talk with him for 2 months. All I wanted was for him to say he loved me and that he was sorry, but he didn't. And in between those two months I heard rumors about him dating another girl. I didn't believe that at first. I asked him if all that was true... He said it wasn't and told me to believe him. I did. But it turned out it was all a lie. He kept on dating that girl while lying to me. He cheated on me. It's been two years and I still can't forget that. I still love him. Even after all he did, I want him back. He tried to reach out to me before. I was too angry and as a revenge I got into a relationship. I don't know what to do. I don't love the guy I'm in a relationship with. I don't think I'll ever be able to love anybody again..... Idk what to do.
Hello, Think about what you want out of a relationship. Do you want loyalty? Honesty? And Trust? I know it’s hard to let go someone who was there for you in the past; when you need them the most. Would it be the same now?
@pinkMap4438 all I want is to be happy... And I don't think I can be happy without my ex best friend
Hey. So, what I can advice you is this, if you don’t love the guy you are with right now, you can leave the relationship and take some time to yourself and understand what it is that you want. If you would like to patch things up with your bestfriend and see where things go, you first have to forgive and heal and I truly mean forgive. By forgiving you will let go of all the hurt and all the things he did. It won’t be easy but that is the only way but that’s if you want to be with him and from there you can work on trust. However, this might work out or it might not. It just depends on the effort you put because I truly believe people can change for the better . I hope this helps Goodluck 😊!
@carefulTalker2440 I tried breaking up with my current boyfriend...but he literally begged me to stay... I felt bad, so I stayed. I feel trapped but I don't know what to do. And my ex best friend has a girlfriend.....she hates me for no reason, so we can't even be friends.
You know you cant really stay with someone out of pity. If you’re not happy or in love it will start to show because almost everything they do might start irritating you. What you can do is that you can explain to him softly that a relationship is not what you want right now. No matter how much he begs and pleads, put yourself first. About your best friend, you can reach out but as a friend because you were once bestfriends and thats where you should start. About the girlfriend, don’t let her opinions get to you. Most girls don’t like their partners best friends esp if it’s a girl. And if it doesn’t work out, atleast you tried and that shouldn’t make you feel like you’ll never love somebody because you will.