Is it strange to fall in love with anyone of the opposite gender when they’re nice to me?

@Hth5508Hello, How you are doing? I'm new here and what a coincidence that this question is the first one I see while navigating this site because I use to go through this exact situation. I use to sit and think about this a lot so here are my reasons I believe this happened to me that might be the reason you are also going through the same situation.

• I use to be a very lonely person and had difficulty making friends especially with girls, so whenever a girl showed me a slight bit of nice-ness, I'd fall thinking she was into me but the truth is her being nice is a natural human thing and not a sign of emotion.
• Another reason is that you might be looking for someone to show you love, empathy and affection and this would be a constant cycle from one nice person to the next.

The one I came to accept about myself is that I lacked self-esteem and self-respect, which made me emotionally unstable, because the very moment someone showed me a bit of respect or a bit of nice-ness, I would have a crush on me. If this is the case for you, then I would suggest, learning to love and respect yourself first, it's not as easy as it seems, but have faith that you can do it, and take those steps towards it - even if it is baby steps.

P.S: It's not creepy or weird - We all want to be loved - And we all deserve love.