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User Profile: LightOak222
LightOak222 January 22nd, 2024

It's so hard being a teen in this day and age. People are out doing drugs like nicotine and weed, skipping classes and bullying others in so many ways. When will things get better? Hopefully eventually. If it doesn't, I hope that there will still be ways to be supported like 7 Cups. Parents are hard to deal with, they judge you over and over until you are the way that they want you to be. They mold you into this pretty little statue but in the inside you are nothing like how they want you to be and it kills you inside, you think you are a mistake, that you did something wrong and that you shouldn't have your own thoughts. You disappoint your parents over and over and they stop believing in you, you aren't worth their time, you are a mistake.

But you are you, and you are beautiful. Look in the mirror and scream "I AM BEAUTIFUL" over and over until it has sunk in. Open your eyes, see how life changes, because you are a dandelion and you may think you are a weed, but you are really a beautiful flower, different and as amazing as the rest of the garden. Smile little flower, or don't, you don't have to hide away. I love you! 

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User Profile: LoveMyMoonflowers
LoveMyMoonflowers January 24th, 2024

@LightOak222

awwe, thank you so much for penning this sweet message for everyone, Oak. 💙 we appreciate you 💜 i hope you’ll take some time to read this to yourself too. 🥺 sending loads of love! 

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User Profile: LightOak222
LightOak222 OP January 25th, 2024

@LoveMyMoonflowers Of course! I feel as though everyone needs to hear something like this at least once in their life. :) Lots of love back! <3 

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LoveMyMoonflowers January 25th, 2024

@LightOak222

awwe your so sweet. thank you 💕

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User Profile: Vagi
Vagi January 25th, 2024

@LightOak222 I am also *** up from this society expectations.. I just want to be what I am😭

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User Profile: LoveMyMoonflowers
LoveMyMoonflowers January 25th, 2024

hi there @Vagi 💜

i understand how the expectations of society can make us feel like we aren’t allowed to be who we truly are ): but i hope you know your loved and accepted here in our community 💙 just as you are. it’s okay to be different, it’s okay to be exactly you. 💜

i also hope you know, your always free to switch to your member account if you’d like to reach out for support. 💙 we’re proud of you for being here and we’re always here for you. 💜 sending loads of love and gentle hugs your way, if okay (: 

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User Profile: Vagi
Vagi February 6th, 2024

@LoveMyMoonflowers thank you bro! .. 

I am replying so late cause I was busy! 

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User Profile: LoveMyMoonflowers
LoveMyMoonflowers February 6th, 2024

@Vagi

that’s okay! 💙 i hope you’ll be able to get the care and support you deserve ^-^ sending lots of love! 💜

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User Profile: Fluffymonster101
Fluffymonster101 February 6th, 2024

You are not a mistake. Your parents will never stop believing in you. You’ll understand more when you’ll have kids or get older. Every teen from every generation had these struggles at some point in their life. Just keep in mind your parents were teens too, they also had nagging parents on their backs, they are also human and everybody makes mistakes. They only want what they think it’s best for you, out of care and love. And as most of us, they think their way is the way. 

Don’t be upset. This too shall pass. Just hang in there. When I was in my teens, I felt like it’s me against the whole world. Always felt like the black sheep. My parents didn’t understand me and I didn’t understand them. It was a difficult stage. In time, I realized that it was really nobody’s fault. Time changes but people not so much. Every generation comes with its own perception. So it’s very difficult to be on the same page if there’s a gap of age. And it’s also difficult to adapt to change. Some of us never really do. Hope this helps 🤓😇
User Profile: SnowSmile4863
SnowSmile4863 February 27th, 2024

@oak

Real. Thanks for posting this amazing thread buddy. Really encouraging. 💙❤️