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User Profile: yarehshs
yarehshs July 24th, 2021

i was assaulted 7 years ago, and i can still feel his hands on my 7 year old body. i just wish my parents could have hugged me, say it wasnt my fault and i that i didnt lead it on. At least any kind of comfort in that moment. Now im being haunted by it even years after. they still let him love with us.

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User Profile: RoyTary
RoyTary July 24th, 2021

I’m sorry to hear that you’re going through this. No one deserves what happened to you 7 years ago. I just want to tell you that you’re not alone. If you are still experiencing any assault, please don’t hesitate to look for legal help - approach the police or something. If you are not of age to move out, look for a job and have an independent life, I hope you’re be able to bite the bullet and pull through this period. If you need someone to talk to, you can always approach me anytime. Stay strong, stay safe. Take care, please.

User Profile: vera00978
vera00978 July 24th, 2021

oh sweetie im very sorry that happened with you. It wasn't your fault! no one deserved it. If u wanna talk im here almost all day. Be safe

User Profile: amiableBlackberry92
amiableBlackberry92 July 24th, 2021

@yarehshs I'm so sorry this happened to you. This is 100 percent NOT your fault..no matter what anyone tells you. Reach out for help just like you reached out here on 7 cups. You are brave and strong !!! Ppl care, I care and Im around here alot. I was assaulted a couple years ago , therapy and journaling is helping me alot plus the support of 7 cups. Glad you found this app , Best 💜 ABB

User Profile: amiableBlackberry92
amiableBlackberry92 July 24th, 2021

Virtual hugs!!

User Profile: hsenapati123
hsenapati123 July 26th, 2021

Virtual hug .....it was not your fault... U are such a brave person.... U will get through this... Everything will be fine...

User Profile: zA1104
zA1104 July 27th, 2021

*virtual hugs* Maybe they don't understand your feelings but I'm sure it will make you a braver and stronger person. Trust me you are not fighting alone. I know how you feel.

User Profile: honeylemon1206
honeylemon1206 July 30th, 2021

@yarehshs I feel very sorry about what you have been through. I have a cousin who experienced the same situation when she was four, therefore, I understand that getting over this is not easy. I'm really glad to know that you really speak up. I may not be a professional advisor but please, figure out the best options for your life. You should find something to temporarily cheer you up, such as a friend or a hobby. Yes, they are temporary but they at least give you a little space rather than not doing anything, as I did throughout my trauma. Be willing to change yourself and take part in activities. It is hard to work on your goals while still struggling with grief but trust me one day you will be proud of yourself because of what you have achieved. When there are days you feel like you are not going to get through it, just remember this won't last forever, since you are still young. You may think what I have said was unrealistic. It's okay if you do as your problem is still here now. I thought the same during years of getting stuck and I can only understand what happened after passing it. And still, send you hugs from thousands of miles away :)) Good luck!
P/s: English is not my first language so please sympathize if I make any grammar mistake

User Profile: affectionateComputer8334
affectionateComputer8334 September 23rd, 2021

Virtual hugs I am with you ik how it feels and your parents hurts you when you say them it really brokes us it's going to be alright it feels untouchable I can't explain and I don't want to remember it again but always remember you are precious very precious your living matters and it's all going to be alright trust me 💗 don't give up

September 23rd, 2021

@yarehshs

So sorry to hear what happened with you. That must he really as you still have to live with them. Please remember that we are always with you.