is this normal?
I feel like a loser as a girl. I am 19 and no boy has ever showed any romantic interest in me. I have never kissed, flirted, dated and I am a virgin too. People are out here losing their virginity at 16, 17 and they say that those who didn't lose it are probably socially awkward freaks with no friends, or just plain ugly. I can't relate with other women in college who have all had something at least. I feel like a huge loser.
@charmingTriangle1071
The modern world is terrible, to be honest. But everything that other people say - you hear. They have their own life and vision. It is not necessary to have 10 partners to be successful. People just have such an evaluation system. And therefore, if you are embarrassed by this, think whether such an approach will be useful for you, because you will always be trying to catch up with their life, the life of other people. You are still valuable whether you have someone or not. You are different from them, you are not like everyone else, but in a good way. And this is wonderful, because who needs identical, plastic and stupid girls? Be yourself and try to pay less attention to the stupid words of other people. You will definitely find friends and relationships when the time comes. And now I wish you luck on this path.
@charmingTriangle1071You are not a loser. You are just on your own timeline, and that is completely normal. Plenty of people don’t date or have those first experiences until their twenties or even later. It has nothing to do with being ugly or awkward.