self-worth
Im 17M and i find it extremely hard to find anything i like about my self my self esteem has never been worse i try my hardest but i just cant see anything i like please if anyone has advice anything is appreciated.
Eckhart Tolle talks about self-esteem @neonBranch7153
@SolarGenerator i might have to try look at that
Hello there .. i can help you if you answer my question, what do you think will make you a better person ?
waiting for your answer :)
@MohdFa if i was funnier or nice or could acc talk to people without screwing my friendship and relationships up, theres alot i wish i could do
@neonBranch7153
I am sure you did not met the right ppl just yet thats all .. and sometimes you have to look at the other half of the cup ;)
also relationships is and friendships depends on the poeple around you dear, trust me you will find what you are looking for in a short matter of time. all you need to do is to change the group of people around you.
and if you could not, you can always talk to me :) i will be happy to meet such amazing friend like YOU!
@MohdFa i really appreciate what ur saying MohdFa it really means alot and i think i would like talking to you but what if im relying so much on the people around me that if i try to find new friends and relationships i might not acc have the ability to
@neonBranch7153 you dont know till you try, this is the rule dear :)
and its worth it believe me
@MohdFa thank you for being someone who seems like they care
thats it? :O
@MohdFa im just stuck on how to proceed with anything, i really dont know what im supposed to be doing anymore
do you mind a personal question ?
how old are you ?
what is your gender?
if you dont prefer to answer directly i dont mind
@MohdFa im 17 male
chill man ! you will have a wounderful life to live
@MohdFa the point is i cant see myself in that life quite frankly im miserable rn
What kinds of things are you focused on that you don't like? We are all made up of so many different things. Finding those we actually like are possible because they are so many versions of us. You just have to find one or two to cling onto right now.@neonBranch7153
@bestVase7265 the part i cant do is find the ones i like in the first place
I totally get that. Start by listing a few of the things that you don't like. Then we might be able to do the reverse.@neonBranch7153
@neonBranch7153
When you connect with your creator and know your purpose you will know what value you have and what purpose you are here to fulfill and why are you here in the first place, you will forget this word self esteem all together bc you will be focused on something instead of focusing on everything and doing nothing which seems meaningful
@neonBranch7153
I'm really sorry to hear that you're struggling with your self-esteem. It's not uncommon for teenagers to go through periods of self-doubt and low self-esteem, but it's essential to remember that you have many qualities and potential that you might not be fully aware of yet. First and foremost, it's crucial to be patient with yourself during this challenging time. Self-discovery is a journey, and it's okay not to have all the answers right now. Try to focus on your interests and passions, as these can be sources of self-esteem and confidence. Also, consider talking to someone you trust, like a friend, family member, or therapist, about your feelings. They can provide support, guidance, and a different perspective on your strengths and positive qualities. Finally, practice self-compassion and self-care. Be kind to yourself and engage in activities that make you feel good about who you are. Over time, with effort and self-reflection, you can rebuild your self-esteem and discover the many wonderful aspects of yourself.
