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User Profile: Lonelyandugly
Lonelyandugly July 16th, 2019

I'm lonely and depressed but like why say it if I'm "looking for attention" at least that's what my supposed bestfriend said but just want to say hi and I need new friends who can relate to me and not feel bad for me

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User Profile: PaleBlueEye
PaleBlueEye July 16th, 2019

@Lonelyandugly we are are all looking for attention and meaning in life, we crave true connections, we expect safty, confort and supperior bonding...we like to be natural around our friends, not impress them but enjoying each other...yes some time we feel we need to be alone but no one really wants to be lonely. The best experts tried to live alone, their survival expertise of the the second wace was excellent, just every single one, including the winner was defeated by psychological, emotional loneliness...even robinson crusoe had friday...or "wilson" if you like the tom hanks movie version...of course each one of us needs true authentic friends...

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User Profile: Lonelyandugly
Lonelyandugly OP July 16th, 2019

@PaleBlueEye I and thx but like I'm tired to people feeling bad for me or saying that I am lieing about everything just for attention to the point I self harmed and then they all want to act surprised and get mad at me when all this time I was telling them

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User Profile: PaleBlueEye
PaleBlueEye July 16th, 2019

@Lonelyandugly they don't listen to what you say...people are too busy with their egotistic lifes or too prone to paranoia due to bad experiences...myself i never cared if my friends invented a story for attention, i am a dreamer myself and i always went along with those who did, but i always presumed tge truth at first and for me it was the connection that counted, not necessarily the content. There were many people in my life whom i couldn't help...but what i could do was be there for them...

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