Foods thots

Here's 4 things that I don't like about food in general: 1) Texture of certain foods feel icky to chew on/swallow. 2) Some smell so bizarre that I can't even stand to smell them, let alone put it in my mouth. 3) I can't eat solid food as fast as other people coz swallowing large amounts of food when I'm eating fast makes my gut tighten up and I end up drinking water after every few bites. Resulting in me not finishing my meal properly. 4) Soft food make me nauseous. Especially the bland kind that is served to you when you're sick. What am I to do? I don't wanna be labeled as a picky eater my whole life. Any tips on how to eat like a normal person?