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Help Needed! BED 😞

User Profile: AmusingCranberry3266
AmusingCranberry3266 June 11th, 2021

Don’t really know where to start, but talking about it will hopefully help. I have always had an obsession with food, but just put it down to no will power! I now recognise it’s way more complex. How do people begin to get over BED? Any help would be greatly appreciated.

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User Profile: hardworkingDay7403
hardworkingDay7403 June 11th, 2021

I hear you! I developed BED after a trauma in 2013. Since then I fight. I was winning but it's back full force again. Everyday I say I won't and for ANY reason I do. I think it's important to talk about it!

User Profile: daisieslavendar
daisieslavendar June 21st, 2021

I need help too! I agree with your statement @HardworkingDay7403, I think it's a key part too, super important, to talk about it. Maybe we can help keep each other going? Checkin, in here and let each other know how it's going and our struggles?

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User Profile: hardworkingDay7403
hardworkingDay7403 June 21st, 2021

Id Be up for that. I know I had been winning when I was in a online weight loss support group. It was small but so helpful for me! I was....again....looking to lose weight and it held me accountable. I do think it could help me again to have support and I can offer an ear!

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User Profile: daisieslavendar
daisieslavendar June 22nd, 2021

@hardworkingDay7403
I would be happy to support you! I haven't really done an accountability type thing before, so please bear with me :) I am for sure, game for this though, too!

My goal is no more eating for the day today, I stopped after dinner at 6pm today (it's 7:00pm here)

Baby steps for me.

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User Profile: hardworkingDay7403
hardworkingDay7403 June 22nd, 2021

I need to stop snacking which leads to binges. How did you do yesterday?

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User Profile: daisieslavendar
daisieslavendar June 22nd, 2021

@hardworkingDay7403 I did ok yesterday. First time in a long time. I still could have made better food choices. But over all, much improvement.
I an terrible at snacking, too! I can't have certain things in my home. I have to idea how to stop.

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User Profile: daisieslavendar
daisieslavendar June 22nd, 2021

@daisieslavendar no idea how to stop ^

User Profile: hardworkingDay7403
hardworkingDay7403 June 22nd, 2021

Improvement is better than nothing! Great job I binged yesterday but today is a new day

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User Profile: daisieslavendar
daisieslavendar June 22nd, 2021

@hardworkingDay7403
How's today going so far for you?

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User Profile: hardworkingDay7403
hardworkingDay7403 July 8th, 2021

Doing good Starting to over eat but no binges. I do want to lose the weight I gain so....ugh I'm glad you are better! How are you today?

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User Profile: daisieslavendar
daisieslavendar July 9th, 2021

@hardworkingDay7403 sounds like you are on a really good pattern! You should be really proud of yourself, I am proud of you :) These little steps add up! That is for sure. I have to keep remembering that. It's so easy to just lose focus and figure "oh well, I will just start again tomorrow" I just have to keep on keeping on. That is the trick, I think?

I am doing well. I did great yesterday, but then I snacked on peanut butter filled pretzels until I polished off the entire bag :( I don't know that one word... control... yet laugh

How are you doing today?

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User Profile: hardworkingDay7403
hardworkingDay7403 July 9th, 2021

Still doing well but over eating yet. I'm thinking I can get on track with over eating once these days slow down. Always a reason. I'm focusing more right now on no binging. Tomorrow starts now. I can't keep binging and saying Tomorrow. I notice it affects my next morning. Just think about yesterday's eating and yuckie feeling about myself. Sounds like you did okay yesterday and do better today! You can and will!

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User Profile: daisieslavendar
daisieslavendar July 16th, 2021

@hardworkingDay7403 how are you doing?? I have no idea how a week has gone by already. I've had a very busy week! Not doing awful, but also not great with the eating. How about you?

take care

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User Profile: hardworkingDay7403
hardworkingDay7403 July 16th, 2021

No binges!!! Over eating yet. Ugh. Things are slowing down as far as how busy I was to be these few weeks. 1 more week then I have to focus on no over eating.

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User Profile: daisieslavendar
daisieslavendar July 19th, 2021

@hardworkingDay7403 Hey there! I um, I am struggling, but over all better.If you don't mind me asking, why do you have one more week before you focus on no overeating?

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hardworkingDay7403 July 19th, 2021

I'm sorry you are struggling:( I'm super busy for about another week or so. An excuse huh? Ugh I have a lot going on. I find all the excuses. I haven't binged for 2 weeks 3 days but I know I am over eating. Maybe I should stop with excuses with over eating too huh?

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User Profile: daisieslavendar
daisieslavendar July 20th, 2021

@hardworkingDay7403 I understand though. I can be the same way sometimes. But, at the same time a start date is not a bad idea either. I could plan on starting that same day as you! Do you have a start day in mind?

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