Can somebody hel me with feeling insecure about this?
I have mental breakdown because of my boobs. There's no normal bra they suit and look good. I can also forget about swimwear. I don't know when I'll get the surgery to make them smaller
I need to add that I used to suffer from ED, and there was the time when I was smaller and I miss this. I wonder if this is body dysmorphia or I just don't like my body the way it is.
@PurpleAcid,
Thank you for making this post. I think a lot of people have been in a similar both especially when recovered or on their recovery journey. You are not alone in feeling this way. ✨
A few things I would like you and everyone to remember are:
-Size and Shape Don’t Matter.
-Bras are meant to fit your boobs not the other way around.
-We all have insecurities and we are here for you.
-Finding a bra that makes you feel comfortable is more important than the way they look.
-There is no such thing as normal when it comes to boobs.
Your recovery is the main priority and I am glad to hear that you no longer feel you have an ED. It is okay and natural to miss some things from when you did have an ED but it is also important you remember the negatives of having an ED to prevent relapse. We are here for you Purple 💗 Your mental health and well-being is the main thing that matters.
@CalmWaves3939 Problem is I kinda find it hard to find a bra which really support me, and Can make me feel comfortable physically and mentally. I can forget about swimwear. Also I want to be able to wear pretty things.
@PurpleAcid
Ahh, I see how that can be difficult Purple. Sometimes it isn't about the bra itself but about accepting our body first. If we don't like the way our body looks we won't like it no matter what we wear ✨ I can hear you have really been trying and how uncomfortable this is making you. You are pretty no matter what you wear. Self-acceptance is the most important part of recovery 💗