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User Profile: Hiphopgirl
Hiphopgirl November 29th, 2020

My older sister has always been calling me fat, don't eat a lot of food and make myself sick so I don't get fat. I cry a lot. Sorry if this is stupid.

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User Profile: TheMadHatterWasHere
TheMadHatterWasHere November 30th, 2020

@Hiphopgirl It's not stupid at all! Tell her to stop calling you fat. Tell her it makes you sad - if it helps. We are here for you! heart

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User Profile: Hiphopgirl
Hiphopgirl OP November 30th, 2020

@TheMadHatterWasHere, Thank you so much.

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User Profile: Kurage
Kurage December 1st, 2020

Hey, I'm so sorry your sister said something like that. It's nothing stupid, and you should know you don't have to do what your sister says. There is nothing wrong with you. You don't have to force yourself to live up to everyone's expectations, but instead, love yourself. Body shaming is never a good thing, and I'm so sorry that's been happening to you. I know it must be especially hard with your sister - especially your older sister, someone you would normally look up to - do that to you. And I really mean it, there is nothing wrong with you, and you are perfect in every way possible. You are you, and nothing can change that. Love yourself.

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User Profile: Hiphopgirl
Hiphopgirl OP December 1st, 2020

@Kurage, Thank you so much.

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User Profile: InquireWithin
InquireWithin December 1st, 2020

@Hiphopgirl

It's not stupid. It's never your fault if someone treats you badly. It's *their* fault* for doing it. Your feelings are valid and understandable. She has no right to treat you that way. I hope you can set limits and boundaries. If you feel unsafe or scared of her, can you find someone who will support you and back you up?

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User Profile: Hiphopgirl
Hiphopgirl OP December 1st, 2020

@InquireWithin, Thank you so much.

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User Profile: talkswithariba
talkswithariba December 4th, 2020

@Hiphopgirl

I'm sorry to hear about that. Please know that you're amazing the way you are. You don't have to change yourself for people to change their opinions. You don't have to change at all. You are loved for who you are!