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User Profile: Kristenbathke
Kristenbathke December 2nd, 2019

it's been really hard. today I cried over a burger. I was so scared to eat it but my boyfriend was right there and I don't want him to know any things going on. I'm stuck.

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User Profile: ReadBooksDrinkTea
ReadBooksDrinkTea December 2nd, 2019

@Kristenbathke I'm sorry you've had a hard day.

User Profile: dontputworriesonClouds
dontputworriesonClouds December 2nd, 2019

@Kristenbathke

I can understand your reaction, but in true relationships sincerity is best. If everyone comes out and explains and discusses their conditions, usually the bonds grow stronger since you confided your secrets. If your partener has a problem with that, than you save ypurself invaluable life time amd vreak-up with someone who doesn't really care abput you. If they accept your condition and are loving and compassionate then you earned your burger to enjoy and keep your partener in love too, bingo!

One of ex-girlfriends was 125kg and I had no problem with that, she was active, mobile, beautiful and intelligent. We loved and respected each other and we broke apart for external reasons (she could not get a job in my town due to social stigma...)

My opinion is that coming out benefits you in both cases: either you are understood and supported or you have the early opportunity to move on and not waste any more time with someone who isnot really devoted to you...

I wish you all the best🤗

User Profile: MaryMarie
MaryMarie January 27th, 2020

This is my 1st post. New here. I think my problem is opposite. I can't stand to eat anything. I can drink my food but to chew solid food makes me sick. I have been on liquid diet for quite some time now.

User Profile: EvilRegalsReadToo
EvilRegalsReadToo April 7th, 2020

@Kristenbathke I cried over a pitabread today, so I feel you <3