How do I become my own icebreaker?
I have difficulties opening up to people . I feel like people will hate me if I reveal myself because I hate myself too. So how do I overcome this? I would appreciate your kind words.
@meowcat1216 Usually, people start with small talk. Or perhaps topics they share interests in or mutual passions, affiliations, groups, etc. Being part of a group or club can help get you into the 'in group'(member) versus seen as 'out group'(outsider). In groups are where most people find friends and partners, especially lasting ones, as a passion already shared is much easier to share with others than trying to make a certain someone like a, certain something. So I suggest volunteering and clubs, extracurricular activities, get together and socialize, sports, athletics, books, science, history, technology, maths, and so the sky is the limit, basically.
@Leonydus Thanks for the advice . It might be great as I do have quite the interest in books ,science ,history ,technology and math. I do get along with a person I dislike just because that Idiot matches some of my interests.
@meowcat1216 the best person you can ever be is you ❤ it's always scary at the start meeting new people, opening up. But after you do, you will feel better, and your confidence will start to grow. So don't be afraid sweetie, anyone who is mean to you isn't worth a second of your time. Gives you a giant tiny hug ❤