Any advise?
I've been seeing this guy, he is like 8years older than me. We started seeing each other just for fun no strings attached but recently I started to like him a lot, but when I said that to him he began to ignore me, to be distant and cold, he said that he wants to talk with me because It was misunderstanding but we didn't talk because he was avoiding me . And when I come at his work(he works as waiter in my fave place) he's acting like nothing happened like he didn't ignored me on message the day before. He said that he saw the last time we met that I have feelings for him but he wants to talk in person and that didn't happened. He had some issues before few days and when I tried to be nice to him he was very rude to me. I want to win him back but I don't know how. Please help
@Mermaid195
When you two came together, you both agreed to a certain type of relationship. By admitting your feelings to him (which is totally okay to have done), you've changed the dynamic and expectations of that relationship into something he didn't agree to. It sounds like his way of dealing with this is to ignore you, in the hopes that your feelings for him will fade and the relationship will come to an end. He can't offer you a romantic relationship which is what you're likely hoping for, so you're falling for an emotionally unavailable man which isn't good for your own mental health.
Although it'd be hard, it's probably best that you distance yourself from him and move on. I'd also suggest not entering into another FWB relationship because you'll only repeat this again. Good luck.