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I have been in this relationship for 5 years now, my guy Jay.. We have had been together before, have children that is grown and grandchildren. We have not been sexually active or affectionate for 3 years..We had a issue where he was talking to his friends gf and i thought it was wrong where she would just text and ask how he was doing and he would say stuff glad someone is checking in on me...and I literally talked to him 3x a day ..hes a truck driver, home on Friday night and leaves out Sunday nights. During our heated discussion about the friends gf, whom they also openly flirted when around each other, he told me to go get it, sex, elsewhere just dont bring the guy home to his house or let him know about it...I live with him in his house... that hurt me when he said that...but i told him there is other ways to show affection and he said that is forced to him and just can't. Again I was hurt...that was last year...since then I have messed around with one guy, feel no guilt, and have another guy who has asked me to move in with him and I could work at his company...but not sure I want to go...I do love Jay. I still try to get affection from Jay but all I do get is his love you's, and quick kiss before he heads out the door...he now for the past year leaves out every Saturday morning and come home at night and same usually on Sundays and then leaves out for work. He is always either hunting or helping someone with something. I am literally drowning in lonesomeness..any advice?