Getting ignored on the Teen Side :') we need this to stop. 💛
(I may not have worded this well T^T but…. Yeah……)
Hi everyone. I hope you’re all doing okay 💛
Tbh - I think I’ve been wanting to write this post for a long time. But I’ve been procrastinating lmao :') I wish I’d written this sooner… But oh well :') here I am. 💛
Since I’m just a teen member, Idk if this… thing… happens on the Adult side too. It probably does. this thing I speak of is getting ignored in the chat rooms. It happens way too much :') I think it’s always happened. And even though we have rules saying we need to be safe, inclusive and considerate… lately on the teen side, the rooms have been far from… safe, inclusive and considerate. :')
A lot of teenies have talked about getting ignored in the rooms, and how hurtful it is. 😞 when this happens it can make us feel like our problems are unimportant ☹️ or that we don’t deserve to receive support, or that we don’t belong. It hurts. And this happens….. every day. we need this to stop 💛
I’m tagging some people, I hope you don’t mind. 💛 I hope we can use this forum as a space to discuss ways we can stop this from happening :') 💛
@Teenmorgan16 @cathanderoutnoah @justmeeva @darkerplaces @asilentobserver @brilliantturtle89
@LoveMyMoonflowers
first off, thank you for noticing. you’re so considerate and sweet and i bet it’s gonna mean the world to the people who have mentioned this before aswell. 🩷
unfortunately i’ll have to agree with you. being ignored is one of the worst feelings ever. i think everyone should put a little effort into yk greeting each other, asking about them, listening.. i know it is what everyone does but at the same time, it’s also as if it’s not.. now i don’t want to ask too much from everyone, especially in sr, people come there looking for support, often they’re tired and feeling down, but i think that if everyone did at least a little something to make people feel heard and welcome, it would already make the situation a little better. it’s a difficult situation but there’s always something to do. starting from a “hi, how are you?”.
🩷🩷🩷
@justmeeva
thank you, evaa-buddy 💜 sending big hugs if okay 💙 me agrees with what you’ve written here. Greeting people and asking how they are is a good start 💚 that would definitely make things a bit better in teenie land. 💛 thank you buddy 💕
@LoveMyMoonflowers
*hugss* 🫂🩷
i hope it’s something’s that’s gonna pass, that people will start feeling better and become frustrated less easily therefore causing less conflict. I hope it’ll all get better. this post might be just the start of the change (: thank you for this ❤️
@justmeeva
*keeps hugging Eva friend* 💛 I hope things change too because it’s just too much tbh 😞 enough is enough… 💚 we need teenie side to be safer and better 💛
Hey flowers!! (took me a minute to find cause it didn’t tag me!! :<)
Yea, Sadly being ignored has been a massive issue lately on teenie side. I’ve made post on it, and I am definitely not the only one wishing it was gone! Sadly. There isn’t much we can do except for just help each other.
ily!! *hugs*
@CatHanderOutNoah
sending hugs back 💚 thank you Noah 💛
No problem!!
@CatHanderOutNoah
^-^ 💛
@pixierobin
@LoveMyMoonflowers hi ni I totally agree with this post and it makes me really sad that so many ppl are feeling this way rn I really want cups to be an actual safe and suppourtive environment
*hugs*💜
@pixierobin
*keeps hugging* 💜