Toxic breakup- can’t cope :(
Hi,
Im really new to 7cups and don’t really know what i’m doing… but i have recently broken up with my boyfriend. Our relationship was toxic. He hurt me, emotionally abused me, and loved me all at once. He’s getting help now and we aren’t together or in contact.
We won’t be in contact until i’m ready to speak to him.
Im just having a really hard time coping. I have so much anxiety and depression from this. I already have ptsd and im nervous this event will become another trauma that gives me ptsd.
I won’t be able to be with my therapist for at least a few weeks. But im struggling so much now…
It hurts and too painful living knowing that you can't be with someone you once dedicated yourself. But you know what, though its not easy keep going, keep fighting soon you will see that your struggle in the past will lead you to be better..
-that's what ill believe in too..
Hello dear,
I totally understand your situation .I wish to tell you that you are the most important gift for you and no one else can change you into something they want I m sure you will get out of this situation all you need is to prioritise yourself before anyone and to love yourself no matter what
I empathize with you. My ex lied and emotionally cheated on me with his former and only ex. Yes it hurts like hell and I shouldn’t be talking to him but before I found out, he seemed so perfect and I was ready to start a long life with him. I hope our moving on process is quicker than we realize ♥️
