Don't let anything pull you back.

Feeling afraid is a feeling that we should have, as this sometimes frees us from committing certain attitudes that may be of no use to us and rid us of erroneous situations. We must be afraid, but we must not let it chain us or suffocate us to the point of not letting us make our life move forward, we must not let our life stand still or agonize with the past. We need to overcome fear so that we can live fully.

There comes a time when you really need to love your pain, because it is the only way to continue living, or you learn or you die from it, from the moment I decided to accept my pain, she became my teacher, my companion, ceased to be my enemy and I accepted and started to know her more deeply.

So far I have chosen to accept my pain, live with it every day, learn from it, and start over, because we have a single enemy that has the power to destroy us, and that enemy lives within ourselves. The only enemy that can destroy us is ourselves. When we choose not to accept the pain and let it eat away at us, until it comes to an end, in self-destruction, but why choose to self-destruct rather than start over?

When the pain comes, offer her coffee, look her in the eye, open the doors so she doesn't close the windows, let her in and stay as long as necessary, until she dissolves by the force of time.

That's it, it's about fighting for yourself, it's about identifying that within you there is a force that makes you overcome everything that destroys you, overcoming the pains that caused you, believing that starting over everything will be better than it was before, we need to go through these moments to know what is really worth, and what is really. And when something is true it is worth starting over, and when you believe you can start over, that you have reasons for it, then do it.