Glitter Venting Space (Comments are appreciated)
I have been quite overwhelmed on my day to day life at school. Two of my closest friends have dropped me due to me having a hard time during my home life. It just sucks because one of the girls lets just call her Snow (not the real name for privacy reasons) she was complaining about me not being open about my issues with her and was upset then...when I was honest about my personal issues. It was too much for her and she dropped me as a friend. I am just confused bc why ask for something you know you can not handle. Then it did not help when she stopped being friends with me in front of a group of our personal friends. She has been spreading drama and calling me selfish for focusing on my own issues. I do not know how to approach this but I have lost 2..maybe 3 friends due to this.
The other friend Berry stopped being friends with me due to me reporting a very bad person and supposedly it wasnt my place to speak up about it apparently. It had been an on and off argument the past 4 years...but its gotten to the point that it is out of control. The situation is thankfully handled now the bad person. But it has just been hard on me mentally bc she was my bestfriend of 8 years...
@GlitterCait
Hi there Glitter, I am so sorry that you are losing friends over this dumb stuff that started with your best friend of 8 years. I know that this has to be extremely hard for you. I can understand why this is confusing to you under the circumstances. All too often people say they want to know stuff but if you tell them the truth then they can not handle it. It appears to be one of those times. She accused you of not sharing your personal stuff and when you did she flipped the script on you and turned on you. I am not sure that she ever was a true friend. Have you ever thought that some people will hang around you to find any type of dirt but they act as if they are your friend? Only to have arterial motives.
Maybe she has become jealous of you, who knows why people do the things they do. True friendship can stand the test of time and can weather many storms together.
When people walk out of your life they were not meant to stay. Sometimes people no matter how close we have got are not meant to walk with you for a lifetime. I know that is hard but don't beat yourself up over these lost people, who have chosen to walk away from you. Human nature is hard to comprehend at times, but people will be people.
Put a smile on your face and hold your head up high and don't give them the satisfaction of thinking they hurt you. You will meet other people that will be glad to befriend you.
Take this information from someone who has walked in your shoes a long time and I have experienced just what you are going through. It hurts for a while but you will recover and who knows they may want to even come back. But be aware of how close you allow them. Remember everyone that says they want to know may not really mean it.
Take care, Keep moving, Keep smiling and I hope this helps❤️😊