Hope for moving on
hi, creating a thread just for a diary or sorts for moving on.
recently ended something with someone that i really liked (i still do) a few months ago and i still cannot get my mind away from that person. we didnt end things at a bad note, more of me still wanting things to continue but the other person does not. i guess i need to accept this, but i still catch myself thinking about that person throughout the day for the past few months. hopeful that these thoughts can lessen soon.
i think i need to love and care for myself as much as i love and care for that person, but it is not easy to do so. i think i should accept that the person no longer wants me in their lives and i should move on, but why do i find this so difficult.
about 10 days, still not easy, the thoughts are still here to stay.
thankfully other aspects of my life is keeping me busy, which kinda helps the thoughts to lessen.
i still miss that person though. it's hard. now my brain is telling me that i can never find someone else that i care for as much, and that no one can make me feel things the same way again.
@adventurousCurrent9395
going through exactly the same!
@adventurousCurrent9395
why does this post have to be the first thing I see when I login into my 7cups. feels like my reflection.....
i know... sometimes .... we don't want to let go of those feelings... even though we are ready to....
and we are caught up by "we won't find anyone like them" but actually its the other way around. we might not be as much as open and vulnerable to someone else. we just can't find ourselves with someone else like we were with them... putting trusting in someone is difficult...... and we don't want to hurt ourselves again.. its as simple as that...
just my thoughts...
