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I hate how everyone tells me optimistic cliche quotes when i say i want to kill myself

User Profile: pessimisthater
pessimisthater December 23rd, 2017

i AM OPPOSITE IT MAKES MY BLOOD BOIL WHEN PEOPLE SAY DONT DO THAT, YOU GOT SO MUCH TO LIVE FOR , YOUR YOUNG, IT WILL GET BETTER.

OBVIOUSLY IT HASNT AND YOU HAVE NO IDEA WHAT I HAVE GONE THROUGH. I HATE HOW EVERY PERSON THINKS ITS OK TO JUST TELL ME THESE CRAP LINES AND EXPECT ME TO GO OK THAT CURED ME. I AM SICK OF PEOPLE SAYING THINGS WILL GET BETTER. THINGS HAVE NOT GOTTEN BETTER AND UNLESS U WANNA PAY ME AND PUT IT IN MY BANK, I DONT WANNA HEAR YOUR CRAP STORIES THAT YOU MAKE UP IN YOUR HEAD SO U URSELF DONT COMMIT SUICIDE.

I AM TIRED OF HEARING OPTIMISM AND BELIEF. IT IS ALL CRAP THAT PEOPLE HAVE MADE UP N THEIR MINDS. IF I WANNA KILL MYSELF OR BE KILLED BY CHOICE I SHOULD BE ALLOWED TO

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User Profile: redmark
redmark December 23rd, 2017

Hey there @pessimisthater

FIrst of all, I am sorry to hear that you feel suicidal. I mean, generally I would say most of the people have the firm belief that this life is worth living, which is the opposite of yours and that is why it is hard for them to understand you, as they have this axiom about this life being worth living, just by default. I mean it is a huge difference in thinking, but I would say these cliche things are always have a good intent, from their end anyways.

Also, I think it is hard to really say anything specific as long as you not share your struggles your story and so on. I mean, until then there is really not much else they can say I think then these cliche things. I mean, of course I know it is hard to really open up and share all the things that make you think and feel this way if not impossible.

I mean, I have grown to take these as a sign of people caring about me over the time, that they at least try even if they are not really understanding me from time to time. I mean, I do not think they do expect you or me to instantly get better it just that they are trying to help you to get through whatever you are struggling with.

I mean, well, I guess I am one of those people who thinks life is worth living by default, so I will most likely never truly understand what you truly mean and feel by these words, however I would encourage you to try and seek some sort of professional help, if you can.
I mean, there you will be able to get personalized help with this, over these very generic things you have mentioned and also share your whole story and struggles with someone who may be able to help you with it the best.

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January 22nd, 2018

@pessimisthater there is always light at the end of the tunnl dear! hold on to it! there is nothing as beautiful as life ! (few more to annoy you cheekycheekycheeky)

i agree. i dont know why killing oneself is considered such a taboo in humans. One should have right to kill oneself when one wants, as many times one wants. and i dont understand why people start offering meaningless positive cliches as solutions to problems that lead to killing self.

User Profile: Bosilee
Bosilee January 22nd, 2018

You need to be given step what to do to overcome certain situations in life and believe they will work for because it as work for others but word's without action given it is a waste.