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I'm tired of people complaining

User Profile: indigoOrange9898
indigoOrange9898 July 22nd, 2022

I just want to cry. My Boss, people around me, all they do is complain. Mostly about things I had no influence about. I feel like a trash can for people. I tried to talk to my partner about it, but he thinks I just need approval of things. I really just wanted someone who listens to me, but he said he doesn't want to hear it and I respect that. My partner is now pissed at me, because I shoud stop acting like it was my fault for people to complain and I should stop crying about it. He made his sister apologise to me for complaining about something I had no influence about. I didn't want that. I really just want my peace from people rn. And making people apologise to me doesn't make it better. I just want everyone to leave me alone.

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User Profile: crimsonSea5594
crimsonSea5594 July 22nd, 2022

Heyy..

Ik it does not feels good. Byt ig people just trust you and feels comfortable around you thus they ahare things. If you dont feel like then tell them that it is not a good time to talk about it rn.

You just need someone to listen to you just like yiu do to others. Letting out things really helps.

❤️❤️

User Profile: Daniel7777
Daniel7777 July 22nd, 2022

@indigoOrange9898

You need to learn to enforce boundaries

It is difficult because the reason you don't currently do that is tied in with your self-worth and emotions from the past

It is up to you.. you can change how people are around you but you have to stand up otherwise it will continue