I want to help
Hi Robert I don't know if you'll ever see this but please I want to keep talking to you you make me so so happy and I cant stand the thought of never talking to you again I want to be able to help you so badly and I hate this please see this and respond please please please @reb15 can other people tag him too please
@reb15, what Robert are you looking for?
Hi. You have to honor your mom. She is so great. Robert is fine and you helped him more than you can know. Whenever he hears a flute or sees clumsy girls playing volleyball he will think of you. He worries that your head may still hurt but otherwise memories of you only bring him joy.
Hi @brst123,
I assume you've talked to him. Someone suspended my listener account and I can't get it back but this is my old member account. My mom is really just worried about me right now and she's do anything to make me happy. I know it would make me so so happy if I could talk to him again just as a quick update. Its great to hear that he's doing ok though. When we stopped talking, I don't know if there was a correlation, but my life just spiralled out of control. I would do anything to talk to him, I'll even make another member account. @reb15my mom doesn't care anymore, I just want to talk again even just for a few minutes, so I can hear how you've been and I can tell you what's been going on with me.
@sadkelsey
Kelsey, hi. i hope u r well. You deserve to be well.
brst123 is my school. they confiscated my iphone and punished me but gave me permission to be in the public, but not private chatroom with you. they monitor everything we say. y should that matter to us?
r u ok? this is Robert. Remember me?
@reb15 how could I have ever forgotten you? I assume you found another girl on here to chat with so im really hoping that you've been okay or better. Wednesday, September 24th was the last day we talked and it wasn't a very good day for me. Don't blame yourself at all, my mom and I just got in a huge argument and things happened. I've decided that I really want to get better though. So I am in a partial hospitalization program for anorexia, anxiety and depression and I think it's working really well. It's daily from 9-4 on school days and I honestly think that in a few weeks I might be confident for the first time in forever. I am so happy I found you again, you have no idea. Please respond and tell me how you've been!! I've missed you so much and I can't wait to talk to you again. You are so strong and incredible.
Kelsey
Kelsey, the only important thing is your health. No, I, of course, have not found another girl and my online access has been restricted. I am receiving professional counseling however, so I am fine. I hope that your well enough to go on your class trip to Italy and I am delighted that you are strong enough to get the medical attention that you need. That bit about the confidence really thrilled me and I'm sure you are right about that. Chatting with you was enormously helpful to me and is yet another reason you should be so proud of yourself. Take care of yourself now. You have already taken care of me enough.
t@brst123 I forgot how sweet and honest you always are. No trip to Italy, my weight has gotten too low and even though it's next summer, no one thinks I will be ready. I have started eating three meals a day again but they aren't high calorie so my parents aren't satisfied. I lost three pounds just in the last week. You haven't told me how you are and yes my health is important but your mental health is important as well. How have you been? Do you like your new counselor?
sorry that was meant for @brst123or @reb15unsure which account you're using
sorry that was meant for @brst123or @reb15unsure which account you're using
Robert, do you still want to talk? I do and it's been a few days without you saying anything
Kelsey,
I think your name is pretty, Kelsey, Kelsey, Kelsey. I can only post to you once/day and only from this computer and have a limited amount of time. please do not take it personally.
I have to thank you so much for your participation as a 7 cups listener. I encourage you to sign up again, even though i cannot be your client, you will help many others with your empathy. every one of your messages to me brightened my day. you were warm and caring and sweet and nice. thank you. it was so nice to think someone out there cared if i was alive or not.
you asked about me, as you always have, so, first, the bad. i have been diagnosed w/ clinical depression, not servere but moderate, no one expects me to hurt myself. i am under a doctor's care and am one of those fortunate people for whom welbutrin is effective. i am doing cognitive therapy workstheets to untwist my thinking about my being worthless and about my parrents being perfect. (i keep thinking about ur dad's comment to you when you broke up w/ your boyfriend. you know that it was untrue but I bet he wanted to hurt your mom, not you, and knew the best way was to hurt you). I am told that it is important that i reaslize that my dad was not the perfect idol i imagine him to be. He was probably an undiagnosed alcoholic and somewhat abusive. i mention it only because no one has perfect parents and it is harmful for me to think everything is my fault.
so, i have been advised to participate. I am running track in the morning and this is funny really funny. going to a coed ball room dance class at my church in the evening. we switch parntersafter each dance. i am clumsy and i hate it but am doing it anyway and being pleasant as i can be, (that is i try not to be gloomy in class)
i never never want to not hear from you or not talk to you. Most of all in all the world, I want for you to be well. your being well would do more for me than all of the above. please please get well. thank you. if for any reason you have to stop communicating w/ me, please say a brief goodbye.
Robert
Robert, seeing this makes me so happy. I'm so sorry you were diagnosed with depression, but at least you're getting the help you need now. Thank you so much for all the compliments and advice about my dad and how to deal with him. We do cognitive behavioral therapy in my program too so we are probably doing similar work sheets. I am trying as hard as I can to get better and I want to for you and my mom. The dancing class sounds like a lot of fun!! I wish I could dance with you, maybe someday. I totally understand about the Internet access thing sorry I was so obsessive over it. I'm also happy that you're running track too!! Exercise increases serotonin and builds up adrenaline. You need to make sure you're putting yourself first though, we did a lesson about that yesterday. Work on yourself and feeling better before thinking about my well being. I will always be here for you to talk to, don't worry about that. Try to be happy!!
Kelsey
Kelsey,
Thank you for your continuing support. I liked best that you said you smiled while reading my post. If I gave you a microsecond of joy, it makes me really happy. you know that i will not have access to this computer over the weekend so don't worry about me not communicating and please don't feel that you have to waste your time replying to each of my posts. what i want most of all is for you to be well. that would make me really happy. that would be the best Christmas present ever.
This morning i felt like such a lazy head and was thinking about skipping track and sleeping in and I thought about you and your comments and felt like i would be letting down team Kelsey if i was lazy.
something nice happened to me yesterday. the coach at school, we only have the one coach, is a big gruff guy who is mean and yells at everyone in gym class. so, he runs into me by accident in the hallway and i try to avoid making eye contact but he comes up to me and smiles (no one has ever seen this guy smile) and pokes his finger into my chest and says, "just because you are alone does not mean that you have to be lonely. Love the angel that is inside of you", and leaves. Maybe it only makes sense to catholics because we are taught about guardian angels from age 5. I think that he was telling me that I should try to love myself.
Kelsey, take care. Please get well.
Robert
p.s. do you find that doing some of the work sheets is painful and makes you want to cry? Maybe it is just me. (sorry for not being more of a manly man).
You never have to worry about your masulinity around me!! Everytime I see that you respond to me, I smile!! Your responses always make me laugh and cheer me up. Though I'm not very religious, I think that the talk you had with the gym teacher was really meaningful. I'm proud of you for getting up this morning and going to track, don't worry about letting me down though. With depression, loss of motivation is a terrible side effect that I deal with all the time and I am so happy that I'm able to help you deal with that. You should definitely work on loving yourself. It's a long process, but it seems like it is worth it. About the worksheets and them making you upset, I feel the same way. A lot of the time, I'll be on the verge of tears and other times, I will be crying. Today, I had a family meeting so my dad had to come too and it was really hard. Lots of yelling and I ended up leaving the room, but seeing your response made me a lot happier. I spent the majority of the day crying after my family meeting with my therapist, but getting my phone and seeing your response just makes me so happy. I wish we could talk over the weekend, but I'll stay safe and be healthy and we can chat again Monday!!
So much support,
Kelsey
Hi Robert, sorry if I seem obsessive its just been a while since we've talked and I wanted to make sure you're doing okay. My day today was really rough, but don't worry about me. Miss talking to you!! Kels
Hey,
Logged here after quite a while and was just browsing the forums, read quite a few threads, but this one caught my attention.
Was just wondering why did you stop the dialogue as you really seemed to help each other. How did the situation evolve ?
I logged 7cups today for an entirely different reason, but seems my curiosity brought me here...
I don't know why he hasn't responded in such a long time, but we really bonded while chatting then my mom heard i was chatting to random guys she made me block him, but I really wanted to reconnect so I reached out and found him again. We definitely do benefit from each others' company. It's an odd relationship, we both struggle with a lot, but talking to each other helps us. Hope that cleared it up!! Happy our conversations caught your eye
I don't know how this works, but i need someone to message me, i need help
There are many people on this site that want to help you. Go to the main page, then to browse listeners, and click on one. You can have a real time talk with a live person, none of whom are medical professionals. I am not a medical professional.