I feel uneasy around people who get uneasy at knowing that I know their friends.
I feel uneasy around people who try to come across as someone having a lot of friends.
I feel easy around people who embrace boredom without resorting to drugs, junk food, porn, video games, doom scroll, anime and cigarettes.
If the reason you don't say "no" is the guilt of being an ungrateful person; then you're emotionally manipulated by the other person in relationship/friendship.
If the reason is the fear of confrontation; then it's a fear based relationship/friendship.
