Not everyone, but SOME
Some people just honestly make me sick! I know, not everyone, but some people honestly deserve what's coming to them.
I hate bullshit. I'm frustrated. All I see is people complaining that they don't live the life of a romantic comedy. It really pisses me off. They cry and complain with no true intentions of wanting to better themselves.
I understand if you're upset. I understand if you're sad, angry, frustrated, or depressed because of things happening in your life. But if you just go on and on about how miserable you are, I honestly feel like you deserve it. You don't even have to know what it is you want specifically. Seeking help is great, and a lot of people on 7 Cups want that help. That, I can respect, and I want to be a part of that recovery. However, nobody can deny that there ARE certain people in this world, (not even in this site) that mope and complain over trivial events. THAT pisses me off. THOSE are the ones I will not affiliate with. THEY are the ones I feel need to wallow all alone in their own misery and choke on their lies.
I apologize for my harsh words, butI felt this is necessary to tell the public.
They are the one's who need the most help support love and care. You see we do what we know. We often don't know how to get better until someone models it. Sometimes it takes a long time for someone to talk and complain and vent before acceptance is possible. Especially when complaining is what is known and the only thing that provides relief. If we cannot not teach so that they learn they we will walk with them and help them see another way, help them grow and love them regardless. We need to respect and love everyone no matter what place they are in. We all are in this thing called life, and we just need to support each other. We do not know why some may not be ready to change but its not our job to understand that. Its our job to not judge. It's our job to care and love. So yes I hear your frustration and I get that you may not want to affiliate with those who are not ready to change, thats okay, just know they need help and support too and we should be patient and loving and if that is something challenging then we need to find the right resources for that person so that someone else can walk with them:) I hope this doesnt invalidate your feelings, That's not my intention. My intention is just to challenge your view and open to other possibilities.
Apologies for my typos.
I understand where you're coming from and all. I'm sure everyone appreciates your words, too.
...but I know I'm a terrible person. I may not be as empathetic as others, and maybe not as understanding. If that makes me a terrible person, then so be it. I will certainly try to work with you if you're feeling down, but I have a breaking point. Once you pass that point... Well, That'll probably be the last time we talk. Lol.
No one is terrible. We all have good and bad. Even Hitler was an aspiring young artist at one time. BTW Im in no way making a comparison to Hitler Im just saying we all have a heart and opportunities:) You have a big heart for being here doing what you are doing:)Its also good that you know your limits:) Sometimes we are only effective until a certain point and that's okay. That is why listening is so wonderful. Because you learn so much through it. You learn through giving your time, your patience and challenging yourself to step into someone else's perspective.
Haha, no need to apologize like that :) I'm not that sensitive. Was just very frustrated at the moment. Although what you said is true, and I appreciate the feedback ^_^ haha.