What's going on with my friend or is it me?
I moved to a new city with my friend, we're both studying there and we stay together. But us being in each others face for 24hrs it's not what I had anticipated,one moment I feel I'm with my friend next thing I feel I'm with a stranger. Last week we agreed we were gonna go out but when that day came she didn't wanna go anymore, mind you we're still new in this place and I don't feel safe going out by myself so I didn't go. Last night she suggested we have a an ice cream date well she fell asleep then we didn't go.Today I told her we should get ice creams then she told me we'll go later on, around 5pm I remind her, she tells me we should do it tomorrow right now she's worshipping.
I'm lost out of words I don't know how I feel. I'm just tired pf having to always wait on her and be disappointed.
the best thing yiu can do it is talk to them , or set some ground rules that work for both of you.
Like tell them that you are still afraid go by yourself and would really love for them to go with you cause you feel safer around them .
Tell them how you dont feel like yiu arent doing special things lately like going on ice cream dates.
Of ource they are free to do what they want but you would also really love to be part of each others schedule cause otherwise you'll miss out on the special thibgs that (i assume )you use to do that made your relationship even better . You can also ask them how yiu can improve as a rootmate. ❤