funnyOcean6278's moving on diary
hey there, welcome to my thread! hope that you would have a good day ahead.
this thread would be mainly about my random thoughts/ramblings on my moving on journey from a friend, totally just for entertainment, please feel free to leave comments/advice/thoughts here 😊
today has been quite tough, my mind kept wandering back to her and all the 'what ifs' and 'could have beens' but i know that these cyclical thoughts are unhealthy and i need to break out of them asap. it's really tough trying to wheel myself out of these thoughts and it has been affecting my focus on my daily life. have done a huge step in trying to move on from her and i hope that it helps. hope it would be better tomorrow. will keep trying to move on until the day that i really do move on.
have been reading through articles on the internet on moving on for now!
urgh, today hasnt been much better, i have caught myself thinking about her and trying to stop my thoughts whenever it has happened. unfortunately, it has happened quite frequently today. i really wished that i could be more present and not be caught up in thoughts of her. hope tomorrow would be better!
can't seem to feel any improvements today, thoughts still invade and persists. really had to keep reminding myself to be present in the moment as it would be unfair to others around me and that i am wasting time. have started exercising to see if it helps. hope it will get better tomorrow.
hmmm abit of an improvement i think for today, fingers crossed!
instead of thinking non-stop of what i could have done or what i could have/shouldnt have said, i think i am going to change my perception of all this into the lessons that i have learnt from this and what i should do in future if i do meet someone that i like.
i will be truthful to my feelings and act on them the next time.
@funnyOcean6278 , hey I hope it's okay to reply here. I wanted to say that I am proud of your decision. I understand it can be hard to not think about "what ifs " and " what you could have done " but yes, we sure can try to change our perception and work more on improving and learning, which I see you took the first step ahead on learning and I wish you all the best. I hope things work out for you. 💙
@Aikyaa01, hey thanks for dropping by and thanks for the words of encouragement and support, appreciate it :) things are getting abit better daily, hope time will heal it
@funnyOcean6278 , aww offcourse! ❤
I am glad things are getting better.
One step at a time! 🤗
