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SnowSmile4863 November 2nd, 2025

Hi amazing people. I hope life has been treating you gentle.

Please don't park your comments here

Thank you

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Mom, 

There is alot I wanted to say to you over the years. And I realized that all of them fall into the category of “perfect conversation” (conversations that doesn't exist).

In a perfect conversation, we can share what's on our mind without fearing of misunderstood. 

I wish there comes a time, where I can show you this. Until that day comes, I'm gonna keep writing here.


Love,

Your little girl

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SnowSmile4863 OP November 2nd, 2025

Mom,

They say there many sorts of bravery; the courage to deliver your speech infrout of a coward、the bravery to rescue someone from a building on fire、the bravery to look at life's darkest side and still keep going.

It takes real bravery to wake up each day and keep going after what you have been through. You don't have to save the world to be brave, you are already your own hero

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SnowSmile4863 OP November 2nd, 2025

Mom,

I figured that you may not like the words in colors so I'm going to keep to black from now on.

People keeps judging and say we are not enough. But please don't join them and bully yourself with them, please give yourself time and patience, no one know what you have been through, no one knows how stressed you are, what given then the power to judge? 

All of us are doing the best we can, with the limited resources we are given, and the messed up situation we are in. 

Please be gentle with yourself (I've been waiting to say this for so long.... I feel like you have been using your parents, the people around you's mean words to punish yourself through the years, maybe because no one has loved you, no one has cherished you in the right way. I'm sorry they didn't see the beauty inside you)


Do you know that woman's pelvic are always larger than man's because we have the place for birth channel? It's nothing to be ashamed of, god made us this way, made all women this way, why are we not perfect?



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SnowSmile4863 OP November 2nd, 2025

Mom,

I wish I can send you a hug....i wish i can check up on you...

I'm scared that it will make you feel even worse...even more burdened...

I really hope you are okay

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