Pyaar (Love)

I'll write it in Hinglish...

Pyaar itni khubsurat cheez hai... Par apne experience ke baad maine seekha hai ke depend krta hai aapko hota kaise insan se hai... 

Agar insan shi hai to pyaar khubsurat hoga aur life heaven bann jaygi without any efforts to make it heaven.. par agar bhaisahab kisi galat insan se ho gya na... Fir to itna badsurat bann jayga pyaar aur aapki life ko bhi itna badsurat krdega ke aapne socha nhi hoga... Full hellish experience even after all your efforts to make it heaven... Aap apna sab kuch de doge uss galat insan ko pyaar mein apna sab kuch maankar par vo galat insan jo hurt ki streak lagayga na aapki life mein vo unimaginable aur unexpected hoga aapke liye....

All I've learnt is that it's better to be patient and first see that person as a person... And vo aapke liye kbhi efforts lagayga bhi ya nhi... Kyonki bhai pyaar is like a whirlpool... Ek baar saari feelings attachments hue na aur agar aap over emotional insan ho aur aapne galat insan se kar liya... To aapki life ka *** hona 101 pct sure hai... Kyonki yaar undo Krna na next to impossible ho jata hai....

But yaar galti pyar ki nhi hai... Pyaar sach mein ek bahaut hi achi feeling hota hai kharab nhi.. vo insan hi shi nhi tha na yaar... 

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One last thing... Pyaar krne ka na to koi set rule hai aur na hi pyaar ki koi definition... It totally differs from person to person... 

Just wanted to share these feelings for so long...