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User Profile: affableTown5581
affableTown5581 November 14th, 2023

Day 42!!!! Of living in my car,

I let other people tell me what to do with my life too much. A question that's been in the back of mind alot lately is "why do I want that, why do I care" the answer is I don't. I don't care about having a social life, I don't care about looking wealthy, I don't care about having a hot gf, I don't care about having a fancy car, I don't care. There are things I care about but that's not it. 

In high school people kept telling me I should want to go to parties and get laid but when I listened it ended up being a regretful experience. I want what I want not what people tell me I want, 🐂


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User Profile: glisteningLight2506
glisteningLight2506 November 23rd, 2023

@affableTown5581 I totally get where you're coming from. High school can be a mess of people telling you what you should be into, but when you try it out, it often doesn't vibe, right?


It's legit not caring about the typical social scene or what society says is cool. Your values, your interests, that's the real deal. It's all about doing what feels right for you, not what others expect.

Don't stress about fitting into someone else's mold. Your journey is all about what you actually want, not what people think you should want. Keep doing you, man. That's where the real satisfaction is.
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