BPD and Leadership
I'm having a tough time being a leader. Everyone looks to me to be a pillar of strength but the BPD leaves me feeling lonely and unable to ask for help. I don't know what to do. I'm lost.
On the other hand, I signed up with Qoorio to give advice on coping mechanisms since I've been diagnosed for 6 years this coming May, and I'm suffering from severe impostor syndrome. If anyone has advice, I would appreciate it immensely.
Hi there @anxiousgoddess0exn
I am sorry to hear you are having a tough time. I do understand the pressure you are experiencing whilst being a leader, and the sense of feeling lost and alone. I am really proud of you for asking for help here in our community.
You ask for advice: what I would like to tell you is to treat yourself with kindness and allow these feelings of loneliness and lostness. When we accept our feelings and emotions, they slowly lose their grip on us.
Sometimes we are so demanding with ourselves. We want to be perfect and we think that if we are not, people will think badly of us and perhaps leave us… If we gently take a step back, we may realise that is not the case…
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