Crush or just BPD?!?!
There is a girl I've known for 3 years, a friend of my sisters. I've never really spent any time with her but the last month or so we have chatted on social media. This weekend I took some photos for her (used to do photography), and spent the whole of saturday morning with her. We had such a nice time together and talked a lot. We have a lot of mental health stuff in common and similar views on various subjects. Anyways, since then I cant stop thinking about her! We chatted a lot since saturday. But how do I work out if I actually like her or if it's just BPD idolising her?!?! I'm so confused
Hello @emelia1502 !
I understand how confusing it can be to feel like this, in my personal experience, when I idolise someone I tend to think about them a lot and I need to be with them. Its a bit like becoming attached and then they become a favourite person. At the same time, its normal to think about crushes a lot and it is possible for her to be a crush and a favourite person at the same time. Main thing is that you have no choice over who becomes a favourite person and more often than not you wont even realise when someone has become one. Have you noticed that you do similar things to her that you would do with other idols? That can be a great way to see how you do feel about her. I hope this situation turns out well and that my post has given you some direction :)
