Do I have borderline?

I'm pretty sure I have borderline. My old therapist said that she thought I had it, and I can't stop thinking about it today. I have some sympthomes like:

I think very black and white, nothing is "grey" in my world. I'm a little impulsive, but not a lot. I fear very deeply to be abandoned. I feel empty and at the same time I feel like I can't control my emotions. Sometimes they are very strong, and my rage/anger is crazy. I get hurt really easily. I have very intense relationships with people, and connect to people on a very deep level almost instantly, but I can't seem to hold on to a friendship more than a few month a time. I'm a self-harmer and often do it, when I have emotions I can't control or if someone hurt me emotionally. I feel like I'm evil and that I course ppl pain, and sometimes I wanna hurt people (physically too).

I have other diagnoses too like: Depression, anxiety, an eating disorder and I'm skizofrenic too - but I think there is something that isn't those diagnoses :S