Does anyone not have an fp?

I find myself feeling jealous of any friend close to me interacting with other people but I don't feel like this with my partner and normally I tend to get platonically close to people who have their own issues and let me help them, then I become nothing but help and then I burn out, put up boundaries and they stop contacting me. So, maybe the real reason I feel jealous there is that I'm being used and rejected and it's not an fp situation. I am someone who really values independence so, the whole concept of an fp doesnt sit comfortably with me but I just end up keeping everyone at arms length because I feel that when I get close to people, they just leave. It's a pretty lonely ordeal.