Getting used by my fp
My favorite person used me and now abandoned me, I feel so sick and used. I feel so stupid for not realizing that he only wanted to use me. I think he might have groomed me (im 18, hes 32) i dont know what to do.
@iamrottinginside
Allow yourself to feel the emotions; don't try to suppress them. Acknowledge them and work through them. Good friends are a great resource in this instance. Crying and journaling these experiences can be very helpful in finding a resolution to what you are feeling.
Give yourself time to get over this. Everyone moves at a different pace. While you are healing from this, it's a good idea to maintain some distance from the person.
Don't blame yourself. People will be people. Sometimes we like to think it's our fault.
Don't focus on this. You are worthy of having good people around you.
Keep positive people around you. They will see the value of being around you. Be yourself and people will see this. Visualize yourself as the strongest person you can be. It will help with self esteem and impact you positively in other areas of your life.
I hope I've helped you in some small way.
xandia❤️
My ex fp used me and catfished me for years so I understand how you feel , you will grow more without him , you’re going to find a better person for you who actually deserves you and you don’t need him you are better than him you are dirty or disgusting or unworthy of anything he’s not worth anything especially not you, you’re not stupid people are just disgusting