Looking for a BPD community, how do you feel about this site?

I'm looking for a support group, preferably online, so I can be involved when I can, but don't need to feel guilty about missing appointments. I thought this site would be good, but in my zeal to reach out to people, the site tagged me as a Spambot. They reinstated my posts, but it totally broke any trust I had for the site, and makes me smoulder whenever I log in. I pointed out to their tech folks that someone desperate could commit suicide after having the rug pulled out from under them like that, but they did not address my concerns at all.

As fellow BPDers, I know you get what I mean when I say that this feeling will be with me for a long time.

Do you guys like this site? If you do, can you try to help me feel better about it by telling me your good experiences? And if you use other sites/forums, is there one you like better?