Need help
@aceizfire
What do you want her to trust about you again? Your post is a little vague as to what you want from her trust in you. Since you broke up, typically people go their separate ways, trust no longer is an important factor. What is it that you would like to rekindle with her, through this trust?
@TrueArrow i want her simple as that she is vary speical to me treated me like no one esle but also made me feel low at times im willing to accpet her for what she has and knowing that i wont always be happy just becuase i know that when i do feel happy it will be worth it
@aceizfire
Do you want her as a friend or to rekindle the romantic relationship? I know watching a person you care for struggle with an illness is difficult. Even more so when you are affected by it as well. Do you feel like you accept her in spite of her illness or do you think of her illness as an extension of all the components made up of who she is? It's good that you are willing to accept her for what she has, but it's also important to love every part of her. Illness and all. I think anyone who struggles with something they cannot cure, wants to feel that. It's important that you show that to her.
As far as trust goes, how do you think trust is made and earned? Usually it's through consistency of actions and effort. Perhaps evaluating the relationship and working on the problems that hurt you both through better communication, could regain her trust. Successful relationships are born from trial and error, you have to continously see what works in order to have a secure and loving one. That is why you must figure out what works and what you need to improve.
My best friend is mad at me,but I didn`t do anyting to her. She is mad at me because I splitted on my grandma (I was very disrespectful) and I kow what I did was wrong and I already said sorry to my granny but my bff is still mad at me and won`t talk to me. I can`t handle it anymore
