Will i able to let him go?
I don't know what to do. It's getting worse. I've got a boyfriend last winter and we're really good for a month and maybe half. But suddenly, yeah, many of you could relate to this. I suddenly left him and stop talking to him like i decided to but i don't want to but i can't control it!. He never know that i have bpd and i know that it's my fault that i never told him. Cause I'm afraid that he'll never want me anymore or think as an excuse to break up with him. And today as I decide, I lost him
I know it can be so hard to tell someone we have bpd, but if you think about it would you want to be with someone who does not want you for who you are? If he truly loves you he would never care about our disorder, he would accept you for who you are and love you for you, and also i know it can be hard to think that someone would not leave us but we are also predicting the future by our thoughts, we do not know if they will truly leave us, and as i have said before if he loves you and cares about you they will stay with you, please be okay and take good care of yourself, we are all here for you, i really suggest talking to them and telling him the truth, lets face our fears and be honest, if they love us they will not care ❤️ I believe in you so much we can do this!!
