me and my gf both have bpd
hey so i have bpd and since i started a relationship with my gf who has bpd my simptoms have gotten worse i don’t know what to do she’s my fp and i’m hers but i still feel like she doesn’t love me bc i help her and she doesn’t (bc she can she’s really bad atm) can someone share they’re experience (sorry for the bad english i’m spanish and also i don’t know how to explain nothing that’s happening so sorry)
@discreetMap6303
Hi, I hope this helps!! I have bpd and my husband doesn't. Though one thing I've noticed helps - communication! When I'm not being helpful or not listening it can be frustrating for him. Try to communicate to her best you can about what you need help with. Even if these things are hard to accept for her it's better to explain your side than her trying to figure you out, and same with her she needs to talk with you also! Communication is key - even though it is hard for us with bpd to express things verbally.
@discreetMap6303
Also don't be sorry about bad english! I'm very new with spanish myself :)
