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7 Ways to Be More Resilient

User Profile: comfortableNight4463
comfortableNight4463 August 8th, 2022

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"Resilience is the set of personal qualities that enable us to thrive in the face of adversity. It may involve being calm in difficult situations, implementing effective coping mechanisms, and handling criticism well.

Why Is Resilience Important?

Ongoing stress can be hard on our mental and physical health. Personal resilience can buffer us from these effects, shutting down the stress cycle and hypothalamic–pituitary–adrenal (HPA) axis, enabling us to better fight off illness and other negative outcomes.

1. Practice Acceptance

The more time we spend getting upset about the uncontrollable situations in our lives, the more time we spend stressed or angry instead of focusing on how we can make the future better.


2. Strive for Self-Knowledge

Self-knowledge is essential to resilience. If we do not know ourselves well enough to cope with stressors in ways that are effective for us, then we are likely to struggle.

3. Take Care of Yourself

If we focus on being healthier, we are likely to boost our resilience. We can do this by eating more nutritious food, engaging in moderate exercise, and sleeping when we're tired.

4. Practice Self-Love

This may be because if we feel bad about ourselves, it colors every other aspect of our lives. We set ourselves up for disappointing situations and then we blame ourselves for them. By cultivating self-love, we can hopefully respond to stress in healthier ways.

5. Build Social Connections

No matter what we're doing, we feel better when we're doing it with others.

6. Take a Step Back

Sometimes when we're going through something difficult, we get so immersed in it that we can't see straight. Our emotions overwhelm and our perspectives narrow. That's why resilience often means being able to take a step back to look at our situation from outside ourselves.

7. Make Meaning

We often create explanations in our minds for why things happened to us and why they happened the way they did. This can help us cope with loss and other stressful events."

Read the complete article available at Psychology Today!

Reflection:

Would you describe yourself as resilient? Why or why not?

*I think I'm not entirely resilient yet but I'm working on it. I think everyone is quite resilient in their own way. We all have survived 100% of our bad days and whatever comes next, we'll survive*

#Resilience #SelfLove #SelfCare #EmotionalRegulation





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User Profile: professionalVision2624
professionalVision2624 August 9th, 2022

@comfortableNight4463

Great article! And yes, self-care and resilience goes hand in hand. I'm also on my journey to becoming stronger and these tips are really important! I think we are more resilient and adaptable than we give ourselves credit for, but I think being aware and activly working on this "life-skill" will go a long way.

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User Profile: comfortableNight4463
comfortableNight4463 OP August 20th, 2022

@professionalVision2624 Well said! Developing resilience can help a great deal in dealing with future events. Thanks for reading!

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User Profile: professionalVision2624
professionalVision2624 August 21st, 2022

@comfortableNight4463

No worries! Thank you for sharing!

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User Profile: calmDew1576
calmDew1576 August 19th, 2022

@comfortableNight4463 Being resilient can be challenging but fortunatelly it's a skill that can be learned and developed.

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User Profile: comfortableNight4463
comfortableNight4463 OP August 20th, 2022

@calmDew1576 Exactly! It can be improved with practice and experience. Thanks for reading!

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