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How to Become a Better Student of Life

User Profile: comfortableNight4463
comfortableNight4463 October 4th, 2022

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"Our achievement-oriented society diminishes the life of everyday people by glamorizing the accumulation of wealth, fame, and power. Yet, we have so much to learn from people we encounter in our daily lives. Though painful, their slip-ups remind us of the landmines hidden from plain sight. Their achievements also leave behind crumbs that can help you reach your own goals. Studying their success can provide you with a blueprint to achieve your desired goals. This is why it is important to be a lifelong learner. You need to be an active observer and learn from those around you.

The Virtue of Humility

Humility is the acceptance that you are an inherently worthy human being who is no better or worse than anyone else. There is no amount of wealth, fame, or power that elevates you above anyone else. We are all mere mortals who await the same ultimate fate.

This virtue is an antidote to narcissism. At the same time, humility is an antidote to shame. Humility does not deny your strengths, abilities, or skills. However, it does emphasize opportunities for personal growth such as blind spots and biases.

4 Ways to Develop Humility

It takes humility to become a student of life and accept you have a lot to learn. The good news is that this essential virtue can be developed. Here are four ways:

1. Accept feedback. Humility is developed by being open to feedback. You carefully listen to what others have to say even if you don’t agree with everything you hear. Maintaining a curiosity mindset with a dose of self-compassion can help you be more open to receiving feedback.

2. Ask for help. Asking for help is a sign of humility. Expecting yourself to complete everything on your own is unrealistic. It also deprives others from an opportunity to feel helpful by making a positive contribution.

3. Admit when you’re wrong. It is easy to become defensive after making a mistake. Remember that no one is perfect. Admitting when you’re wrong is a sign of courage and integrity that will only elevate you in the eyes of others.

4. Recognize others. Consider the numerous people who have helped you along the way. Take a moment to thank them. Their contributions have altered the trajectory of your life and continue to play an essential role in your success."

Read the complete article available at Psychology Today!

Reflection:

What are your thoughts on humility?

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User Profile: Josh3889
Josh3889 October 6th, 2022

This is another great read. I believe that we as humans are always learning, accepting & listening!

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User Profile: comfortableNight4463
comfortableNight4463 OP November 12th, 2022

@Josh3889 Agreed. We are always learning, life constantly teaches us new lessons. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!

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User Profile: Josh3889
Josh3889 November 14th, 2022

@comfortableNight4463

Thank you for sharing & posting!

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User Profile: comfortableNight4463
comfortableNight4463 OP November 20th, 2022

@Josh3889 You're most welcome!

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