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Psychology Today: Three Small Things You Can Do to Feel Better

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comfortableNight4463 June 18th, 2022

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"Does Life Feel Kinda Messy?

If you feel like you have spent the last few years on a roller coaster, blindfolded, with no end in sight, while half the passengers insist that we need to go faster, and the other half demand that we need to stop the ride and get off – you're not alone.

Social media is a hotbed of loud noises and false facts, and studies suggest that depressive symptoms increase as social media usage increases.

It all feels impossibly overwhelming. But, here are three small things that you can do that may make a difference in your life.

Smile. It may make you more nimble.

According to Barbara Fredrickson’s Broaden and Build Theory of Positive Emotions, we should be focusing on setting our lives up in such a way that we create the opportunity for us to experience happiness.

Fredrickson believes that these positive experiences free our minds to allow for greater creativity in our thought processes and problem-solving skills, which increases your potential coping skills.

Our brains release a stress hormone, Oxytocin, when we feel emotional or physical danger. Oxytocin is great for fight or flight, but it limits our brain to focus very much on one very bad thing. Great for survival, but not for logical thought processes. If we can experience something positive, we can possibly trick our brains into shifting to more logical thinking, rather than survival mode.


Sleep on your side. It may give you a cognitive edge.

One of the many things that occur when you sleep is that your brain cleans itself using its glymphatic system. The brain has a lot of important tasks to do in order to successfully monitor the function of your entire body, and every once in a while, an error can occur in the brain producing a “misfolded protein.”

In order to keep your brain emptying itself of what it doesn’t need, researchers have long-recommended a healthy diet, regular exercise, and minimal alcohol consumption.

But, a new finding from researchers has discovered that for mice, sleeping on their side may also help the brain in its self-cleaning process.

Interestingly, researchers point out that the majority of mammals already sleep on their side, which hints at the possibility that it is biologically advantageous for us to do so.

It's Ok to want your MTV.

Many people had expressed concern when MTV's 16 and Pregnant first premiered that the show would glamorize teen pregnancy and potentially increase incidents of teen pregnancy.

However, in the first eighteen months that the MTV show 16 and Pregnant aired, researchers found a 5.7% decline in teen pregnancy directly related to viewing the show, as well as an increase in internet searches about preventing pregnancy and pregnancy options.

Let this be a reminder to be careful what you consume. Although true crime and murder mysteries are fun forms of entertainment, you never know how they might be influencing your subconscious.

At the end of the day, you can’t change the world, but with a little bit of effort, maybe you can make small changes to better yourself."

Read the full article here!

Reflection:

What are some things that help you feel better?

#MentalHealth #Happiness #Emotions

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User Profile: globalBraid3744
globalBraid3744 June 18th, 2022

@comfortableNight4463

Thank you for sharing this article! Listening to music or being with my pet can always cheer me up. What makes you feel better?

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comfortableNight4463 OP June 19th, 2022

@globalBraid3744 I love listening to music as well! What are your current faves?

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sunnyWriting4806 June 18th, 2022

@comfortableNight4463

I'm surprised sleeping on your side is on there! One of life's simplest pleasures for me is to have a cold pillow and sleeping on your side haha!

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comfortableNight4463 OP June 19th, 2022

@sunnyWriting4806 I love sleeping on my side too! It's more comfortable than sleeping on my back.

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June 19th, 2022

When I make other peoples days better, something as simple as holding a door open, or helping a lady across the street! Little things like that make me incredibly happy.

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comfortableNight4463 OP June 20th, 2022

@Sn0r1ax Same here! Seeing other people happy makes me happy as well!

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fruityPond7887 June 20th, 2022

@comfortableNight4463 I think just being kinder to myself and understanding that not everything has to be perfect is important for feeling my best. I always try to do everything perfectly and I'm always so hard on myself, but it doesn't need to be that way. As long as I am doing my best, that's what matters!

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comfortableNight4463 OP June 20th, 2022

@fruityPond7887 Exactly! I used to struggle with perfectionism so much that I couldn't even get started on the work. I try to tell myself getting it done is better than getting it done perfectly. Perfection is arbitrary and we shouldn't strive for it.

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fruityPond7887 June 21st, 2022

@comfortableNight4463 Exactly! Perfection isn't attainable and we don't have to always be so hard on ourselves as long as we do our best💛

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comfortableNight4463 OP June 21st, 2022

@fruityPond7887 Well said!

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