Self-Harm Recovery Daily Check-In: Monday, November 9th, 2020
Heya everyone! Happy Monday! I haven’t had my coffee yet but I hope it’s going to be a good week for us all!
1) How are you doing?
2) What is going well and not-so-well for you?
3) If you could pick a superpower, which one would it be?
Feel free to share anything else in your mind! I’ll be looking forward hearing from you all!
Take good care of your amazing selves, stay safe <3
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@LinearWaves
1) How are you doing?
Alright I believe
2) What is going well and not-so-well for you?
I went into a haze (which is kinda like dissociation ig but more of just fuzzy thinking and a weird rationalisation of my thoughts taht I can't remember afterwards) last night and now I feel guilty for what happened to myself during the haze, but today in a whole had been great.
3) If you could pick a superpower, which one would it be?
Teleportation.
@YouShouldCallMeT
Hey there! It's nice to hear you're feeling alright!
I'm sorry though to hear that you went in a haze last night, I can understand how you'd feel guilty for what happened then but I'd like to remind you that there are some things we can't control on the moment and it's not our fault, we have control though on moving on from it and coping <3 Do you think there could have been a way to get out of this haze last night?
Teleportation would really be useful!
Thanks for checking in, take care!
@LinearWaves
Waves!!!! *waves* lol
1) How are you doing?
Today was a rough day. I stood looking a things I could use for SH a few times, and nearly took them. I had quite a few professional meetings with people who are not mentally well (I work in a care field) and it was very hard. Its hard to be feel that you are responsible for helping someone who resists the real sort of help / healing. One person left my office crying, and I felt like a failure. Which is super triggering for me.
2) What is going well and not-so-well for you?
Oh... Um I have some really great friends and supports! And I am up and down dramatically, and I quite often feel pretty self-destructive. Also cheating on sleep pretty consistently, which is dangerous...
3) If you could pick a superpower, which one would it be?
Reading minds, I guess...
@1morday
Heya! I'm sorry to hear today was such a rough day, I'm really proud of you though as you were tempted but fought it, and that shows a lot of strength and willpower! It sounds tough to be responsible for helping others, and frustrating that they'd resist the real help provided. I'd like to say though that even if you're responsible for helping them and encouraging them to get help, but in the end its down to them to accept the help. I really hope you can feel better about it all! Is there going to be more of these meetings?
It's good to hear you have great friends and supports, especially when having to deal with rough times. Do you feel the cheating on sleep part could be causing/participating to making you feel self-destructive?
Reading minds would be quite interesting! Although I wouldn't like to read minds 24/7!
Thanks for checking in, take care!
I want to be productive so badly
@SleepyHeart1
Hey there! Sorry for the delay! Did you manage to be as productive as you wanted?
Something that usually helps me is to get active with a little work out and then I noticed that I'm much more productive during my whole day, I don't know if that can help you as well!
@LinearWaves woah thx !!! I do feel like exercise helps !!! But some days I drain out like a battere ... need a new one i guess XD
@SleepyHeart1
If you find where to buy batteries for human I'm interested too! :p
1) How are you doing?
Medium-bad I'd say
2) What is going well and not-so-well for you?
Going well - I feel somewhat accomplished because I did a few chores I've been putting off for ages
Not-so-well - I am stuck in a rut basically not getting out of bed or showering and wasting away all my days
3) If you could pick a superpower, which one would it be?
I don't really want a superpower. I just want to be an average functioning human.
@Brynn9
Hey there Brynn, I'm sorry for the delay and to hear you were feeling medium-bad, did that improve though?
Yay for accomplished chores, especially since they had been waiting for ages, it must feel really great to have them finally done so congrats! As for what's not going so well, I'm sorry to hear that you feel like you're wasting away your days, do you think there are things that could help you change this? For example I know it's said that a good thing to do is to brush your teeth, or do your bed, or something like that, so as to have accomplished something at the start of your day and then feel a push from that first accomplishment. Some also say that doing to-do lists, or using a kind of routine help them. Do you think there is something that could help you (if you're feeling like it)? <3
Thanks for checking in, take care!