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Self-Harm Recovery Daily Check In: Sunday, March 3rd, 2019

User Profile: redmark
redmark March 3rd, 2019

Happy Sunday every-amazing-one! I have really missed you all! heart

How are you feeling today? :)

How has this week been for you? Do you have anything you would like to share about it here? :)


Can you believe it is already March and, with that, spring? I am really looking forward to the weather getting better and to be able to do outside more as a form of self-care! :)
What about you? Do you have any outside self-care activities? Something that you may look forward to as the weather gets better? :)


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User Profile: LooneyArtimus
LooneyArtimus March 3rd, 2019

@redmark I went to a Celtic festival with my aunt and cousin yesterday and I was so happy I loved it. I used to go every year with them when I was little but the past couple of years we haven't gone but we did this year and it was like a time machine to a happier point in my life. I recently downloaded an app called a year in pixles and I think it helps me just writing down how my day was. It's just me and my parents today so I'm hoping to spend some quality time with them since my brothers aren't home.

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User Profile: redmark
redmark OP March 3rd, 2019

Hey there @LooneyArtimus *offering safe hugs*

It is really nice to have you here with us! heart

Oh, a Celtic festival sounds really interesting! surprise
I mean, it definitely sounds like fun and I am really glad to hear that you have been able to spend some nice and nostalgic time like that with your aunt an cousine as well. :)

Journaling also sounds really nice and, honestly, I have never thought that I could have like sort of a journal on me all the time on my phone and honestly it sounds like a really good idea :)

Anyway, I do hope you will be able to spend some nice time with your family as well today! ^-^

Stay awesome! heart

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March 3rd, 2019

@redmark

Heyo heart
Umm, today, well tbh I don't actually know anymore. Emotions are everywhere and I'm not thinking properly but I rarely do.
This week has actually been okay, things just hit a low over the last two days and I can't be sure why lol.
Pffft, March already, I'm shook. We have a storm here at the moment and I don't want sun yet because I can't wear short sleeves anyway hehe but hopefully the weather will still get better a little.

I self cared!! I went on a walk. I wasn't going to come home but then I thought of 7cups, and thats why I appreciate it here, because it somehow, pusged me to come home when I didn't want to. blush
Although its rocky, I'm hoping March can improve.

Take care!

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User Profile: redmark
redmark OP March 4th, 2019

Hey there @Littleblu *hugs* (if you are okay with it)

It is also really nice to have you here with us! heart

Aww. I am sorry to hear that you are having such a day. I know it can be really hard and very draining when your feelings really just go all over the place :(

I am glad to hear that you have had a good week overall tho and I hope that the coming week will be just as good for you and that you will feel better soon. If there is anything we may be able to help you with we are always here for you so feel free to reach out to us here anytime, you are not alone in this! heart

Oh...I actually like storms - or to watch them from my room if I do not have anywhere to go to at least :P
Also, I get you, I have some long sleeved shirts which are really thin and not so hot and I usually wear those to this day. I mean, it helps that I am working in an office and it is kind-of-required as well although not really enforced :)
Also, I have heard make up can do some real magic if you are not feeling comfortable in short sleeves!

Well, I am glad that you have came home - or at least I am glad that you are here now with us. Also, just going for a walk sounds like a really nice way to take care of yourself :)

I hope to hear from you around here again somtimes. ^-+

Stay awesome! heart

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User Profile: mytwistedsoul
mytwistedsoul March 4th, 2019

@redmark Hey How are you?

I'm ok.. A little up, down all over. Tired, sleep is always so elusive.

I'm keeping my appointments. Even went to group on Sat. Slowly learning signs and signals from myself. Tomorrow's a month no self harm. That feels good.

I'm pretty sure that spring is never going to come! 5 inches Friday, 4 inches yesterday and 10 tonight. Someone need to apologize for making mother nature so upset! I can't wait til we can start the garden again. And take walks without needing snowshoes!

Take care,

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User Profile: redmark
redmark OP March 4th, 2019

Hey there @mytwistedsoul *offering safe hugs* (I mean, no pressure, but just in case you may want one today)

It is always really nice to have you here today! heart

I am, well, a bit sick, dealing with a cold - again, I should really learn to take better care of myself in the cold weather - but otherwise I am doing okay, thank you for asking! :)

I am glad to hear that you are feeling okay although I hope that you will be able to get some sleep soon and more of those ups will come with time as well. :)

I mean, I can tell that you are working hard for it and you are doing a really good job. I know that keeping appointments can be hard and visiting groups scary but you have done it and, also, one month without self harm is amazing. I am really proud of you! heart

Oh, I remember that snow was an issue for you often so I suppose you live in a cold place in general which, honestly, sounds kind of harsh, at least I would not like to deal with such weather either. I do hope that you will be having some good weather coming your way soon and that you will be able to go for walks again and start your garden :)

Stay awesome! heart

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User Profile: mytwistedsoul
mytwistedsoul March 4th, 2019

@redmark

Thanks! I'm never sure if we're allowed to re-reply, I'm not sure why. Does it matter?

Just wanted to say I hope you feel better soon. I know it's no fun being sick. Take care of yourself!

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User Profile: redmark
redmark OP March 6th, 2019

@mytwistedsoul You can re-reply all you want here, I like to talk with you. I may be slow to reply tho throughout the work-week, Monday to Friday, but I am always really glad to hear from you. heart

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mytwistedsoul March 6th, 2019

@redmark Thanks.. means alot. man people in here have me all emotional today, lol! Sorry, there's just been a few people that have really touched me today and I feel a liitle emotionally over whelmed, but in a good way.

Take care, I hope you feel better soon.

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User Profile: Ash7518
Ash7518 March 7th, 2019

@redmark

Hello, This week has been very stressful. Friday I have Choir contest and then next friday is band contest. on top of that the end of the grading period ends on friday. Then after spring break I'm thrown into dress rehersals for my spring musicals. I've been really depressed and anxious because of it. The good news is that I've gotten all of my school work done. Helping my mom plan my cousins first disneyworld trip has been the highlight of my week! I'm really excited!!!! :)

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User Profile: redmark
redmark OP March 7th, 2019

Hey there @Ash7518 *hugs* (if you are okay with it)

It is always really nice to hear from you around here! heart

Oh, that sounds like you are really busy! surprise
I can imagine that havin so many contest and the end of the grading period can be really stressful but I believe in you, you can totally do this! :)
Of course, do not forget to take breaks and take time for yourself if you feel like it is needed and I do really hope for the best for you on that contests as well as with the upcomming rehersals! :)
...or, wait, is it true that you should not wish luck and wish for good things when it comes to rehersals and plays and such other "theatre stuff"?

Disneyland sounds definitely exciting and I can imagine that it has to be awesome to help and plan someone's first visit in Disneyland! ^-^

Stay awesome! heart

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