Self Harm Recovery Daily Check-in : Sunday, August 23rd, 2020
Hello, hello beautiful beings <3
It's sunday, the end of the week ! I hope you've all had a good week, if not, I'm sending hugs your way :)
As the week comes to an end, today's topic is closure. As we walk along our road to recovery, there are some things that we have to let go of, relationships, old habits, places, objects, experiences, etc. All this to help us move on, keep walking along our little path to brighter places. Though letting go can be hard to us, saying goodbye isn't always easy. Everyone moves at their own pace so if you're not ready to say goodbye just yet, that's totally fine too. In these situations, time can be your best friend.
Check-in questions :
1) How was your week ? Any events that you would like to share with us ?
2) How would you define closure ?
3) Is there anything you feel nostalgic about ?
Song recommendation of the day : Up to the stars by SAINT PHNX
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@Slizzy564
Hey there.
1) How was your week? Any events that you would like to share with us?
It's okay. I just found an anime I want to watch. Events? Nothing in particular.
2) How would you define closure?
Closure, huh? That's an interesting word related to the words ending or conclusion. I guess I would define closure to a situation where you can finally experience peace of mind. Achieving this state can lead to happiness. It must be a good feeling to die with a smile on your face with a fulfilled life. It's the perfect closure that anybody wants to have.
3) Is there anything you feel nostalgic about?
I've been studying online for a year. Face-to-face classes felt somehow nostalgic.
Thanks for reading. Take care!
@LovelyOrangeJuice
Hi there :)
Oh what anime are you watching ? :)
Hum the words you relate closure to are interesting. I like the idea of being at peace with what has happened and that leading to happiness. I do agree it must be great to die with a smile on your face, happy with the life you've lived even if it wasn't perfect.
Good luck with the studying ! Must be hard to manage your own time so that you don't miss anything. There's a social aspect in face to face classes I guess, something about spending time together that brings people together.
Thanks for checking in, take care <3
@Slizzy564
I'm watching the old version of Fullmetal Alchemist. It's full of tragedy, and I like it. It shows how great power can either fix or ruin someone's life.
Cool, you like my idea of closure.
Thanks. Good luck as well. I do missed the social aspects in face-to-face classes. Online classes felt a bit lonely even though there's a lot of freedom. That's the law of equivalent exhange. x)
Thanks for your reply. :)
Heya! I'm taking the hugs thanks :p
1) How was your week ? Any events that you would like to share with us ?
It wasn
@LinearWaves
Feel free, I have plenty to share :)
Oh wow it's great that you can see the difference from a year ago ! It's nice to hear that you're doing better at managing your emotions :) Something worth celebrating ! Also I love the fact that you made a not so great week into something positive :)
Leaving the regrets, that's a good one there ! And learning from it is also a wise thought :)
Oh I didn't know that you'd traveled, where have you been and where would you like to go ? :)
You're welcome, I love to share music so it's a win-win situation :)
Thanks for checking-in, take care <3
@Slizzy564
Thanks!
Yeah about managing my emotions, I was the very first to be surprised about it! I really like how sometimes we can achieve things that we didn't even think was possible ourselves!
I've been to several countries in Asia, like Vietnam, Cambodia, Thailand, China, Lao, I think I'd like to re-discover them all, but Vietnam had really something special, kinda soothing! I'd also love to go back to Jordan, Egypt, Turkey, and discover India, Japan, Myanmar, Mongolia, okay kinda everywhere actually! Discovering new cultures is just really special!
Thanks for the reply :p
@LinearWaves
It's even better when you change without actually realizing it, like one day you just think 'oh I'm doing this a lot better than I would have'. All those small changes add up to make bigger ones :)
Oh wow you've been to loads of places ! Sounds really cool ! And yeah I could imagine that the culture over there is totally different from us. By visiting these countries, you tend to realize how easy of a life we have over here. Such a difference in the way people think and go about things, quite fascinating !